big mistake

ok this is gonna sound so stupid, but ive been learning to drive since november time, and over the time, i'd fallen badly for my driving instructor, he was one guy i met who i thought was really decent and really sweet, at the time i thought he liked me to cuz he was always really nice to me and had a lot in common, so i thought i was in for chance. so i stupidly txted him when i was drunk and he got really defensive and was like he's not interested and it inappropiate for me to be txing him and that he was too old and ill meet someone when i go to uni, i felt really stupid that i had got it all wrong and to make things worst i had to go to a lesson the next week where he acted like everything was completly normal. i just read all the signs wrong and ended up embaressing myself. just want u guys opinons or if anyone else has been in any simialr situations?

Reply 1

The Mudman

10

Sorry, what are you after? You were drunk, I'm sure he realised, and did the sensible thing; pretended it never happened. I suggest you do the same.

Reply 2

thats_my_poison

1

cant say i have but its a bit of a bummer. at least he was a decent enough bloke to just act normal and not make a big deal of it

Reply 3

Jack Twist

1

imnottelling

ok this is gonna sound so stupid, but ive been learning to drive since november time, and over the time, i'd fallen badly for my driving instructor, he was one guy i met who i thought was really decent and really sweet, at the time i thought he liked me to cuz he was always really nice to me and had a lot in common, so i thought i was in for chance. so i stupidly txted him when i was drunk and he got really defensive and was like he's not interested and it inappropiate for me to be txing him and that he was too old and ill meet someone when i go to uni, i felt really stupid that i had got it all wrong and to make things worst i had to go to a lesson the next week where he acted like everything was completly normal. i just read all the signs wrong and ended up embaressing myself. just want u guys opinons or if anyone else has been in any simialr situations?

Its better to regret something you did, then regret not doing something.

Reply 4

Misogynist

18

Wow, He's a nice guy.

Reply 5

Spiral Architect

1

I wonder if the term "Let's go for a ride" derived from a situation similar to this.

^^haha

why did he give you his mobile number?

Reply 8

Misogynist

18

Angelil

why did he give you his mobile number?

I presume to contact him incase she wasnt going/in his driving instructor advert.

Reply 9

Fleece

15

Are you the person that posted a while back about fancying their driving instructor? I was wondering how that was going...

Reply 10

Misogynist

18

I think that was me, but I think it was the other way round Fleece :p:

Reply 11

Fleece

15

Nah, it was def a girl crushing on her driving instructor!

Reply 12

imnottelling

OP

Angelil

why did he give you his mobile number?

i had missed calls from him and stored his number, just incase i neeeded to cancel my lesson

Reply 13

imnottelling

OP

i just found out that he's handed his notice in, i hope it has nothing to do with me, he's also a traninee cop

:|

OP

god i wish i hadnt of said anything, its all a big mess and he's leaving and ill nvr see him again, i feel let down :frown:

Reply 16

username47781

20

Well you made a mistake, but i am sure you will learn.

Reply 17

Tarts_n_Vicars

13

Why do you feel "let down"? He didn't promise you anything or lead you on...you just got the wrong end of the stick that's all. He was a gent about it and probably knew how embarassed you'd be so said nothing - you should be thanking him lol

As for leaving, if he's a trainee cop anyway the driving instruction was only a sideline and he may well have given up anyway regardless of what you did or didn't do.

big mistake

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