The Student Room Group

i got used!!

ok so right now i am majourly pissed off cos i got used!:mad:

a couple of weeks ago i met some guys called x and y, they both like me.
so x keeps on ringing me and we go out, except we just end up at his house watching tv etc. i ended up staying the night, we didnt have sex or anything like that cos im not like that. ive talked to y on the phone and we start to really like each other and its really nice that we get along so well. we arrange to meet up except he never turns up, (well he was late and im not going to wait in the cold for him) so i am overly pissed off at him and i stop talking to him for a while. so i go to france and when i come back x keeps ringing me again, saying how much he likes me and all that jaz. However i called y on saturday night and on sunday he text me saying do you wanna link up again? i'll be ther this time. so i meet him and we are watching a film and hes all being touchy touchy with me, putting his arm around me rubbing my shoulders. so we end up kissing im thinking everything is cool between us, i called him later that night and he doesnt sound normal like theres something wrong and he says there isnt. so i say im gonna go cos your not saying anything and im wasting my credit.
a couple of hours later x calls me and this is when i told him i dont really like him how he likes me and that hes only a friend and that im sorry if he thought i was leading him on with staying the night etc. he says is it cos of y? and i say no hes only a friend.

so this is where it all goes wrong, y texts me saying:
im sorry but i think we should be friends cos i seem to like you as a friend ok
(me) lol wtf is this about? i only see you as a friend, just cos we kissed doesnt mean i want to bloody marry you lol
i know that was a lie anyway otherwise you wouldnt of been all touchy touchy with me today, dont you want me then?
i see you as a friend but at first i thought i liked you more but i dont so we should be friends, you are a nice person and you will find your man trust.
bull ****, i know you want me an if you dont trust i'll make sure you do. are you chatting this crap cos x called you?
nah its not cos x called me, i will tell you know i got back with my x girl last week and like isaid i see you as a friend.
so why did you kiss me? and why were you acting like you did?
cus i wanted to see if i was making the right choice going back with my x and now i know i was the feeking i have for her are more diffrent than the ones for you.(can you delete my number 2 please thanks, i'll see you around)
so you used me then?
no i didnt use you, forget today, it didnt happen im gone.
**** you! you used me and you think im just gonna brush it off like nothing? i dont bloody think so!
you really dont listen do you, and you kissed me, lets stop this now im telling dont ring or text me
WHAT?! YOU text me to come round. YOU came onto me. YOU could of said no.YOU didnt say you had a gf. YOU USED ME. get your facts straight!
i know i should of said no but i thought you was gonna be pissed if i did, im going be night night.
i dont want to be with you if thats what you think! you are the biggest fool i have ever met! and if this is what youir like i dont want to assocsiate myself with you

i am just so angrey with him! what the hell should i do? i feel like such crap

Scroll to see replies

Reply 1
hahahahaha.

text him back saying: 'kik lolkz ur a fkn gaey dued harolf!1'

hahahahaha.
Reply 2
Sounds like a complete bastard, just forget about him - you're better off without people like that in your life.
Reply 3
haha, well i wouldnt let it effect you that much - hes the one that sounds like a right prat not you. just brush him off and text him back to tell him he didnt mean that much to you either and tell him that you are seeing some other guy who is older, etc
Reply 4
I got majorly confused at the end. Did y get back with his x, or did y and x get back with each other or what? :s:

Hmmmm :redface:
Reply 5
Rachel
Sounds like a complete bastard, just forget about him - you're better off without people like that in your life.



:ditto: you're better off with someone who deserves you
LMFAO!!!!!:laugh: :hahaha: :rofl: Has anyone else been pissing themselves readng this?!
Oh and I would suggest you say "Nah bruv, I aint avin it! I is gonna get ma crew ta bang u innit!":wink:
Reply 7
i would post his picture with "gay bitch" on every forum available
hugs to u chanel
Reply 8
mrteacher
i would post his picture with "gay bitch" on every forum available

And all over the town :p:
Reply 9
um...i dont get the big deal? i wouldnt have said he necessarily used you. was only a kiss. and the way you went off at him suggests to him that you really like him...you might have wanted to play it cooler, so he doesnt think he got to you. some guys get off on that.
Reply 10
Pretty Boy
These guys have weird names. Like, i mean, imagine having a name like 'x'

would be even worse if his last name was 'factor' or 'files' :eek:
Reply 11
Were x and y friends then? It sounds a bit like you started off leading them both on. But, i wouldnt really say y used you, that seems a bit dramatic - though if youre really upset then youre better off without them. Obviously if he had a girlfriend he was using you in that way, to see if he wanted her back, which isnt very nice. But then again did you have no intentions of taking it further anyway? Just move on and find someone new, :smile:
LPK
would be even worse if his last name was 'factor' or 'files' :eek:

Or "ray" :p:
Reply 13
Rachel
Or "ray" :p:

o0o eggcellent :biggrin:
Rachel
Or "ray" :p:

Or 'Treme':biggrin: :rolleyes: Now that would be cool:wink:
LOL to Anonymous. Chanel, I suggest: either you ignore him (which would be really boring). Or you could take the moral high ground, find out who this girl is that he's going out with, and while she is with him, go up to him and ask to have a private chat with him about 'the other night', and when he refuses, mention to the girl (who you 'don't know' he is going out with) that he kissed you and now doesn't want to even know you. You could even start to cry if you wanted.
Yodling Zeek
Or 'Treme':biggrin: :rolleyes: Now that would be cool:wink:

Or "Citing" :smile:
Reply 17
play_the_world
LOL to Anonymous. Chanel, I suggest: either you ignore him (which would be really boring). Or you could take the moral high ground, find out who this girl is that he's going out with, and while she is with him, go up to him and ask to have a private chat with him about 'the other night', and when he refuses, mention to the girl (who you 'don't know' he is going out with) that he kissed you and now doesn't want to even know you. You could even start to cry if you wanted.


yeah no thats great.......if you want to lose all dignity you may have had.
Reply 18
My brain has started dripping out of my ears. Full stops are a joy sometimes...

Could you not like just, pop a cap in his bitch ass or summink?


"i dont bloody think so!" :congrats: :rofl:
Pretty Boy
nah, citing sounds too legal

'Rated' would be much betta

"cessively" would be quite funny!