have been going out with my bf for a year now and things r getting very serious. thing is i saw a side of him that i really didnt like the other day. he pretty much acted like the stereotypical male chauvanist pig infront of all our friends. i was so embarassed, especially when people started sympathisising with me. i felt like a total doormat but i didnt want to loose it infront of all our friends. i just joined in the joking and roled my eyes behind his back.
the thing is it made me realise how much housework etc i do for him. i dont think he has done any washing in months. its not that he expects me to do it but i guess i just come from a very patriachal household and have slipped into the role. i also have more time on my hands than he does and if i dont do it he wont either. what do i do? i dont want to nag him because he really doesnt have much spare time, but i dont want to end up being expected to do everything.