Nope, nothing to be ashamed of IMO...I do it now and again with random guys through text club numbers which i found in the ad section of Cosmo, so slightly different situation. I'm a well-rounded person, got amazing social life which involves real people too (!), studying for my degree bla bla bla...so for me it's just a bit of harmless (dirty) fun. If you're single and horny then it's a great way to have some fun, relieve your frustration and it stops you sleeping around, which some people may resort to I'm guessing when they find themselves in a similar situation. Plus you can test things out on men/ women to gage their reaction to things like fantasies..like a test run for when you're in an sexual relationship in reality. Who cares what other people may think? Why does anyone have to know! (19, female btw)