house arrest

my dad is the cause of my social isolation.
i am a v. social person but my dad does not allow me to socialise...its like he is anti-social.
anyway a boy has asked me out recently and i really like him...wanna say yes but i cant because i wont be ablt to go out with him...
...wat shall i do?

Reply 1

Kitty-S

Depends how old you are I spose. Ideally, you should have a chat with him, tell him how you feel. Say you want to spend time with friends first (rather than boys, dads can be a pain!) then after a while talk to him again. Tell him where you're going, what you'll be doing...etc. Text him when you're out, tell him what's happening. Then tell him stuff when you get back.

If this is not possible then maybe talk to another relative? Or you could ask your dad out with you, just to a pub or something, get him to realise you're ready for the big bad world!

im 15...

Could this boy just happen to come round to your house and get invited in for coffee? If your dad met him he might realise some boys are quite human really...