cHi everyboddyyy
Im worried for my friend
Shes been seeing a lad for 1year and 4 months, and they got engaged with 4motnhs, hes a black lad (21) from Africa, which i do not have a problem with, and my friend is 17 (who is white). Ive met him once, in that whole time theyve been a couple, despite the thousands of times everybody has invited him out, and ive asked her to let me see him again ... he just doesnt want it
Anyway this is the problem .. theres something not quite right about him i know it and so does her other best friend ... hes been back to Africa 3 times for 10weeks at a time in 1 year, he doesnt wana see her friends, he got engaged to her after 4 months, his ex gf keeps ringing him and saying that his kid needs him .. he tells her that shes mental. Also 1 time when he said he was in Africa, he rang her mobile of an english number despite being "in africa". And she said oh it must be a mistake.
She loves him so much and doesnt know how we feel about it .. if we metion it to her shel go mad and fall out with us .. i dont want that as weve all been best friends for 14years.
We think that he wants her to have his Visa to be able to live here, hes married, or hes got a kid (like his ex said lol)