she treats him like crap

me & my ex have a good relationship, have done for the past couple of years since we broke up. he had a new girlfriend in between us breaking up and now, but they ended when he decided to surprise-visit her at uni and she wouldn't let him in her room (he had to sleep at her neighbours). He doesnt know what happened there, but all signs point to her having someone else in her room. they didnt talk for about a year and a half, but now he decided to call her again & he is going to stay with her for a weekend soon. i think this is a huge mistake, and am pretty sure she is going to hurt him again but i dont know how to tell him this without sounding like a jealous ex.... any solutions?

Reply 1

username47781

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Oh dear if she didn't want him in the room surely she was up to no good with someone else, i think he's better off without her, it seems clear she is using him.

..

Live and let live.

they're both adults...

Reply 4

username47781

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well if he doesn't stand up to her then hes gonna find out the hard way how bad she really is

Reply 5

Anonymous #3

The person who started this thread is:

butterfly1452

Shes the ex.

Reply 6

butterfly1452

yup... :P accidentally posted again under my own name, tried to delete it but didnt know how so just changed it. dont mind if you guys know anyway. but yea... what do I DO!

i could live & let live but i would pretty much have to pick up the pieces after she hurts him... we're both seeing other people but still sleeping together (argh)

One solution:

butterfly1452

we're both seeing other people but still sleeping together (argh)

lol, if youve tried telling him before, and he still wont listen to you then just as you say 'let live'. and once he gets hurt he should realise himself. if not, then thats his problem. soz for my limited advice, but dont really know what else to say. just make sure u do pick up the peices if he gets hurt again

Reply 9

Ferrus

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Let him make his own mistakes, he'll learn eventually. Like a hamster when you stick electricity in its water. Which is fun I may add, you should try it.

Reply 10

butterfly1452

i actually really like his new girlfriend, although I was a bit jealous when they first started going out (shes a model) lol but yea. me & her get on really well, but he was a big ol' mess after it ended the last time and it took forever and a half for him to get over it... it was just messy. and not nice to see someone you care about crying like a little girl.

lmao @ the hamster comment... GENIUS

Reply 11

butterfly1452

lol.... everyone says we look really alike BUT we don't imo. She's like 5ft 11 and flat-chested and im 5ft6 and... not lol. My ex isn't really a dick since we're having consensual sex which I sometimes initiate myself *ahem* so it's both of us rather than him using me if thats what you thought.... I wish them two could actually be happy together, but it's just gonna be non-stop drama since they're in completely different places right now... she's at uni and he just got signed to BMG... which is another annoying thing cos she's gonna take all his damn money probably :rolleyes:

Reply 12

Fruit-cake

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butterfly1452

yup... :P accidentally posted again under my own name, tried to delete it but didnt know how so just changed it. dont mind if you guys know anyway. but yea... what do I DO!

i could live & let live but i would pretty much have to pick up the pieces after she hurts him... we're both seeing other people but still sleeping together (argh)(/B]

this is really out of order to your new partners in my opinion. if the two of you are over each other move on and stop having sex. why are you with a new guy and still sleeping with the old?

sorry if im being a bit rude or whatever but ive been in the other persons shoe, where my now ex boyf was still sleeping with an ex gf who hed been going out with for two years. (but left like a year between me and her) i really liked him and it broke my heart to find out he had been doing that. seriously people if youre over your ex, then why the sex?n youll only end up hearting yourselves and other people around you in the long run.

Reply 13

butterfly1452

its ok... you're not being rude... i can empathise even though ive never been in your position... but the reason we still do it isnt really emotional in any way, we just had some really really good sex and dont wanna let that go... neither of us are serious about the new ppl we're with anyway... tis early days

Reply 14

Fruit-cake

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butterfly1452

its ok... you're not being rude... i can empathise even though ive never been in your position... but the reason we still do it isnt really emotional in any way, we just had some really really good sex and dont wanna let that go... neither of us are serious about the new ppl we're with anyway... tis early days

do your new partners know this? because think seriously about telling them if they dont, or theyll find out one way or anouther and end up getting hurt. do they know theyre early days and just a bit of fun? it sounds like you arent really over your ex to me...

Reply 15

El Scotto

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Anonymous

me & my ex have a good relationship, have done for the past couple of years since we broke up. he had a new girlfriend in between us breaking up and now, but they ended when he decided to surprise-visit her at uni and she wouldn't let him in her room (he had to sleep at her neighbours). He doesnt know what happened there, but all signs point to her having someone else in her room. they didnt talk for about a year and a half, but now he decided to call her again & he is going to stay with her for a weekend soon. i think this is a huge mistake, and am pretty sure she is going to hurt him again but i dont know how to tell him this without sounding like a jealous ex.... any solutions?

What... so hes still sleeping with you at the moment...

and he hasnt even spoken to this girl for over a year and a half,
so now hes straying from you again... as he wants to try and get some with her again... and you're jealous even though you're currently with someone?

crazy.

Reply 16

username47781

20

get's weirder by the moment

Reply 17

Fruit-cake

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El Scotto

What... so hes still sleeping with you at the moment...

and he hasnt even spoken to this girl for over a year and a half,
so now hes straying from you again... as he wants to try and get some with her again... and you're jealous even though you're currently with someone?

crazy.

correction theyre both with new 'non serious' partners and hes chasing after some ex??

Reply 18

butterfly1452

lol... im not 'officially' with anyone... but we like each other, and no he doesnt know im still sleeping with my ex. i should probably stop & just let him get hurt, cos tbh he has to learn one way or another. may as well be the hamster & electricity way eh?

Reply 19

El Scotto

15

mini_munchkin

correction theyre both with new 'non serious' partners and hes chasing after some ex??

.... whilst still sleeping with this girl whos posting on here?

hope they're having rubberlove. lol

she treats him like crap

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