I like her...

hey. ive been good friends with this girl at my school i know for a while now. of late my feelings toward her have kinda gone from friends to more than. she doesnt feel the same way (i imagine. she has a boyfriend who is my friend). im not asking for "break them up so i can jump in" tips. just...what should i do? tell her just to get it off my chest/try to stop talking to her as much/just....stop liking her.

does anyone have any ideas or been in this situation, id imagine at least some people here have?

thanks.

sorry if this has already been discussed i tried to find a thread like it and couldnt.

any ideas would be welcomed :smile:

Reply 1

Mark S

Im in exactly the same position mate (apart from she doesnt go to my school)

I still havnt figured out what im doing, Prob just leave it though

Reply 2

Shmerm

been in your situation.

I personally wouldn't tell her though unless it starts to damage her friendship. If you feel that way about her, become really good friends with her and have closeness that way.

Reply 3

Creative02

just knw that telling her u might risk loosin a friendship

Reply 4

Anonymous #1

yeh. thats what im thinking. its just were quite good friends, and see each other/talk a lot. its just really hard to see her, especially with her boyfriend. (who i think is great :rolleyes:

) i dont want to feelings to develop either. as i used to like this girl in a similar way and ended up liking her for over a year while it was all one-sided :frown:

so yeh...do you think i should just sit on it...just try not to think about it/her etc?

Reply 5

hitmanuk2k

Telling her will get you nowhere. Keep it all too yourself. If you told her, you'd only end up losing 2 friends. Both her and her boyfriend (I doubt he'd appriciate you wanting to sex his girlfriend).

Reply 6

Mark S

hitmanuk2k

"wanting to sex his gf"

Reply 7

Anonymous #1

yeh...ok. thats what ill do :smile:

just sucks seeing them/her a lot. but hey.
chin up!

what about trying not to see her as much? just so i dont kinda see her 24/7? or leave it as normal. how it is.

Reply 8

Mark S

Anonymous

yeh...ok. thats what ill do :smile:

just sucks seeing them/her a lot. but hey.
chin up!
.

Too true, Its bloody gutting eh?

Reply 9

hitmanuk2k

Anonymous

yeh...ok. thats what ill do :smile:

just sucks seeing them/her a lot. but hey.
chin up!

what about trying not to see her as much? just so i dont kinda see her 24/7? or leave it as normal. how it is.

I can't see how not seeing her would help. Absence makes the heart grow fonder and all that.

Reply 10

Anonymous #1

good....well..i cant tell if thats sarcasm or not, so ill ignore it.(but yeh it is! if it wasnt sarcasm)

im just gonna ignore it. talk to her as much as i do. good friends. sit on it. act normale

thanks guys :smile:

Reply 11

wazzup

dont be soo sad. go and find another girl.there is plenty of fish in the sea.

Reply 12

Anonymous #2

i was in the same situation. but i just enjoyed being single. and was just a good m8 to her, and sure it was hard ( esp when she started talking to me about her relationship) but at the end of the day i think she's worth the effort.