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my b/f do's not trust

Anonymous #1

my boyfriend just told me he do's not trust me it hurt so much :frown:

Reply 1

username47781

Well why don't he trust you?

dnt listen to him!!

what made him say it?

trust is an instint. i liked my last bf very much. but honestly i just didnt feel the trust. and i was right - he was cheating on me with 2 other girls!

Reply 4

Anonymous #1

i don't know why he said it i love him would never hurt him like that :frown:

Reply 5

Ghost

I wouldnt trust a girl who leaves out the "e" in "does" either!

Reply 6

Angelil

Why don't you ask him why he doesn't trust you?

Reply 7

lovelee-jublee

He must have some suspicion/reason... I'm sure he wouldn't think it for no reason! Talk to him about it and ask why it is he feels he can't trust you.

Reply 8

shinytoy

maybe he has been really hurt before/cheated on or maybe he doesnt like the idea of you having been with people in the past.
or maybe he said it when he was angry and didnt mean it

what was it in relation to? you are anonymous so its all private.
i think we need to know why he said it before we can ehlp you make it right.

i said it to my last bf cos he kept asking me if we had been together long enough for me to lose my virginity, i'd been cheated on 3x befroe, and he had 17 previous partners.

it doesnt mean he doesnt love you, its maybe just that he doesnt feel in the relationship deep enough to get fully emotionally involved.

Reply 9

anjurdsg

Ghost

I wouldnt trust a girl who leaves out the "e" in "does" either!

lmao...that actually made me laugh pretty bad...

ok listen here... i can give 3 possiblities

i think he MIGHT be playing with ya... but i dunno... dun get hurt over thing like that...

or maybe, if he's not playing around, ask him... talk to him... just get straight to the point ask him WHY he said that... does he think u're cheating or something...

or maybe he's just an asshole and maybe u should dump him and date other, more ALPHA-type men...and stop even considering losers like him

Reply 10

pumpkin7

bah.. trust is a funny thing.
my boyfriend claims not to trust me because one of my 'boy' friends said 'wuv you' on msn to me.. i mean, come on.
in a way though, i guess i don't trust my boyfriend either.. he has told me on numerous occassions that other girls have kissed him, and he is always on about other girls and commenting them. it's quite annoying, and he says he is joking, but i guess the real test will come when he goes to uni.

Reply 11

CherryGarcia

u have to talk to him and ask hiom why he doesnt trust you, there must be the reason...then discuss it, explain smth about it if needed and then, try to insure him, that you wont ever do anth bad to him.

Reply 12

WokSz

Well, I think trust is extremely important. If you don't have it, the relationship is pointless. My gf and I trust each other blindly - it really has brought about a lot of ease into our relationship.

Reply 13

Anonymous #2

He might just find it hard to trust people because of things that have happened in the past (not necessarily because of relationships with his g/f's, but with friends, family, etc)... that's my problem.

I think for me, I can only trust people after I'm 100% TOTALLY SURE they trust me. I know it sounds werid, but I figure if they can open up to and trust me, then I feel better and more comfortable about trusting them. (It also means if they betray me, I've got something on them). Have you shown you b/f that you trust him? If not, maybe that'll help.