The Student Room Group
Reply 1
It will be a little strange your first time but probably not painful if done well. Take it all very slowly, to make sure you don't hurt yourself, make sure he's well lubed and using a condom too, if he goes slowly it should get enjoyable yes, but the anus will take time to get used to it; try to make it easier for him as well if you get my meaning.
Reply 2
Err :vroam:

Advice: go slow and use lube!
Reply 3
x_Lou_x
Err :vroam:

Advice: go slow and use lube!

yeah.
erm i went to a gay bar once and suprise suprise they didnt have ladies toilets but they had loads of booklets on info about gay sex and stuff which i thought was a good idea
Reply 4
Remember, anal sex is just pooing backwards, it cant hurt that much
Reply 5
use KY gel if need be
Reply 6
this is going to get closed... this is going to get closed
*use extra strong condoms
Reply 8
pumpkin7
this is going to get closed... this is going to get closed


Surely it is as valid as any other thread by someone nervous about sex?
Reply 9
I'm not gay, but i'm curious. How can it be pleasant to receive anal sex? seeing as there is no glans or clitoris to stimulate. I mean you can't have an orgasm that way can you?

It seems a one way street (excuse the pun!).
Reply 10
Zakatu
I'm not gay, but i'm curious. How can it be pleasant to receive anal sex? seeing as there is no glans or clitoris to stimulate. I mean you can't have an orgasm that way can you?

It seems a one way street (excuse the pun!).

yea im curious too. I was watching a movie and the girl seemed to enjoy it in the back than the other.....i mean how is that possible to achieve more fun than getting the original orgasm?
Reply 11
Well most women can't orgasm from vaginal sex, so it's no different really, and then for men obviously the prostrate gets stimulated.

The spoons position is easy to try for your first time. xx
Reply 12
Curious or bicurious? :wink:

Those kinds of movies don't make a point of being particularly 'real life' or factual. The more moaning and groaning the better - to the point of sounding like a broken record.
Zakatu
I'm not gay, but i'm curious. How can it be pleasant to receive anal sex? seeing as there is no glans or clitoris to stimulate. I mean you can't have an orgasm that way can you?

It seems a one way street (excuse the pun!).


I'm not gay, but I was under the impression a man's most sensative 'g-spot' is situated in that region. Which is an argument many bring up when confronted with the issue of 'IT ISN'T NATURAL >=O!'
Gio
yea im curious too. I was watching a movie and the girl seemed to enjoy it in the back than the other.....i mean how is that possible to achieve more fun than getting the original orgasm?


The male G-spot is apparently in the anus. So i guess guys prolly would enjoy it...
Reply 15
I would defintley not take it up the rear end...saying that......
Reply 16
Zakatu
I'm not gay, but i'm curious. How can it be pleasant to receive anal sex? seeing as there is no glans or clitoris to stimulate. I mean you can't have an orgasm that way can you?


Wow...your ignorance is blissful. Males don't have a clitoris and perhaps you should find out about the prostate.
Reply 17
Zakatu
I'm not gay, but i'm curious. How can it be pleasant to receive anal sex? seeing as there is no glans or clitoris to stimulate. I mean you can't have an orgasm that way can you?


You can.

It seems a one way street (excuse the pun!).


Because of the prostate gland in men. In women receiving anal sex feels good because the nerves in the vagina are indirectly stimulated.