I'm having problems when my girlfriend and I are intimate.
I don't mean to sound conceited but I'm quite thick down there. And my girlfriend is rather small down there. Even when I finger her, I can only get in one finger at a time because I'm scared I'll hurt her.
It makes me laugh when people say she is small down below, we have babies out of there, it can't be that small, you just need to turn her on more! Or get some play lubricant.
she could get a gerbil if she wanted to but i've heard they bite.... As for the rabbit, get the pink one from ann summers, as the new one is a complete waste of money, they don't seem to get the meaning of thrust....
btw, anonymous user numero 3.. the first time you have sex doesn't hurt everyone... just sounds like you were one of the unlucky ones.. or maybe you took it too fast.. who knows :P
I know it doesn't, I was unlucky in the fact that he was the size of my forearm. It wasn't the best decision but my life's a little messed up. It would have hurt even if he'd been a bf I was in love with purely because he was sooo big!
Well in all honesty I may not be the same body type as her but my IQ is a lot higher. So do you wish to elucidate a tiny bit as to which part of my post wasn't 'quite right'?
Well not that I feel the need to explain myself but I'm 20 and have only ever slept with one man used both a condom and was on the pill to protect myself. If that's a slapper well......... You don't seem to have a good thought about any girls and I pity your gf to be with someone like you. But let me guess even if she's only slept with you she's not a slapper because you're together? I really wouldn't start judging other people til you know the full story
Yes, lots of foreplay. If she is really relaxed, 'wet' and turned on, then it should be easier. Keep reassuring her and do not rush!
If she seems tense at all, give it a rest for a while. Let her get her head sorted (as this is often part of the problem) and once she is 100% happy, try again.