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My toning is going wrong!

Hey, I've been going to the gym to tone up since mid January now. I'm starting to see results, but they're not the ones I want!

I wanted to tone mainly my bum, upper legs/thighs and tummy. my thighs are now muscley, quite solid, but much bigger than they were before! the fat has gone but the muscle has made them even bigger, which is not what i wanted.

and my arms.. i dont do much arm things at the gym except 5 mins rowing 3 times a week and some repetitions on the chest press etc. now i seem to be getting big bicep muscles, again making my arms look bigger which i don't want.

i don't like this new shape i'm getting. how do i tone without getting bigger?!

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have you ever took up jogging or swimming, try that it might work
Reply 2
prefer cardio to wheight lifting/rowing etc
Indeed, just avoid all weight based activities. One alternative is doing something like yoga, I know a few people who started doing yoga and they swear it's helped them to tone up their flabby bits quite a bit:rolleyes:
Jenna999
Hey, I've been going to the gym to tone up since mid January now. I'm starting to see results, but they're not the ones I want!

I wanted to tone mainly my bum, upper legs/thighs and tummy. my thighs are now muscley, quite solid, but much bigger than they were before! the fat has gone but the muscle has made them even bigger, which is not what i wanted.

and my arms.. i dont do much arm things at the gym except 5 mins rowing 3 times a week and some repetitions on the chest press etc. now i seem to be getting big bicep muscles, again making my arms look bigger which i don't want.

i don't like this new shape i'm getting. how do i tone without getting bigger?!


LoL! These are the kind of results I wanted. *runs off to buy rowing machine* And er, what were you doing to make your thighs so solid? :biggrin:
Reply 5
jenna, if you're developing unwanted muscle, cut weight and add reps/increase time.
Reply 6
what people say about the increase cardio is true, but depending on your running strategy you might also get muscle growth. it has to be well paced long distance

a surefire way to lose fat and tone is walking more. get off the bus 3 stops earlier. try marching, that requires more tension than just bimbling along and tones well.

another thing to try is isometric exercise. this means, the muscles tenses but doesnt change length. you rely on your bodyweight. one example is the plank. go into pressup position but with your elbows on the ground shoulder width apart and forearms up, touching your chin. keep your head up and hold for a set amount of time. great for abs, thighs, back muscles in particular.
I have to walk two miles to get to uni and two miles back again. I also run for about three miles at a time a couple of times a week. I really should be thinner. When you think about it, I must be eating a shocking amount.
Reply 8
i run 3 times a weem, i go dancing and i swim. i should be thinner too. pfff i do eat a shocking amount of food
Reply 9
cut out the weightlifting and just do cardio, tone is just low body fat. don't do the 'low weight high rep' crappy myth. its also pretty unlikely that you are putting on such a noticable amount of muscle.
Reply 10
i get phenominally hungry after lots of exercise, and probably eat whatever i've burnt off
*sigh*
Do more repetitions with less weight/resistance, and your muscles will become more lean rather than bulky.
Reply 12
Jenna women don't grow muscle as much and as quickly as men do. I think you've just 'toned' ie. lost the flab/fat.............and that tends to make people think that their muscles are bigger then they actually are. Don't worry about it too much.:smile:
Reply 13
crafty bison
Do more repetitions with less weight/resistance, and your muscles will become more lean rather than bulky.

:rolleyes:
Reply 14
BBGirl
Jenna women don't grow muscle as much and as quickly as men do. I think you've just 'toned' ie. lost the flab/fat.............and that tends to make people think that their muscles are bigger then they actually are. Don't worry about it too much.:smile:

yep.
Err, Jenna the more solid thighs are what guys love..
Reply 16
hey guys, sorry for late reply, i was out.

thanks for your responses, i don't want to cut out resistance work completely or the gym would be boring. i also have a BMI of 19 so cant really lose any weight either, a few pounds/half a stone at most and I think i'd be as small as i can get on a healthy diet.

I think BBGirl may be right when she said i've toned so it makes me look musclier. my boyf if here and he said he has def noticed a change but i look more shapely/curvy. but i still think my thighs and bum protrude more than they did before... i'm gonna try doing less weights. or maybe its cos i've toned the fat from my thighs, it's defined my shape more?

i#m gonna take a thigh measurement and do it again in a few weeks to know for sure if its in my head or not!
Reply 17
Are you sure haven't put on weight/gotten fatter?

Its hard to believe you've put on such a significant amount of muscle since January.
Reply 18
nope, i've lost weight... about 3 lbs.
Reply 19
this is what i do at the gym for anyone who was interested:

10 mins treadmill at 6.6 speed and increasing from 3 incline to 10 incline over the 10 mins followed by
6 mins running at 10 speed and 0 incline
10 mins cross trainer level 7, no hill
5 mins rowing level 6/10
5 mins exercise bike level 10/20

then:
leg press thing, 80 reps of 30kg
leg curls about 50 reps 20kg
another leg thing 50 reps 20kg
adductors about 60 reps 25kg
abductors as above
glute 30 reps on each leg, 25kg
chest press 15kg about 20 reps
pectorals 10 kg about 20 reps
waist toner thing 20kgs, 30 reps on each side
and then about two songs worth of stomach crunches etc!