The Student Room Group

Whats he doing??

ok, got with a guy i liked and have known for a while on Friday night, and he stayed over at mine, which was good :smile:

I had his number since then but knew i'd see him out so didnt text, saw him on tuesday and he stayed over again. This time it was more cuddling and kissing than the friday, lots of talkin too, was really nice

I text him once to ask what he was up to, he text back and everything was cool.

However I go shy when I see round uni, he's on a different course and older, and usually end up running away/blanking him

I'm scared he's too good for me/not interested/taking me for a ride

what do u guys think? Does it sound a bit like he likes me? Or is he just wanting sex?

Also, i'm off out tonight, should I text him and see what he's up to? just a casual where off 2 tonight? kinda text


eepp help :smile: cheers guys, i'm rubbish myself
Reply 1
Grrr how are you going to know what he wants unless you talk to him more?
Reply 2
Don't analyse things too much, go out have some fun. :smile:
Reply 3
law:portal
Don't analyse things too much, go out have some fun. :smile:

yeah i agree.
just relax, be yourself and see how things go :smile:
good luck
he sounds like he likes you, dont think about it too much just let it run its course
Reply 5
c'mon if you stayed over his house 2 times without sex then he is does not want you just for sex!
Just ask him out - it will be yes if what you say is true.
Reply 6
If he was just after sex most guys like that would have given up by now, so relax :smile:

I know it's easier for an outsider to say it but you really should try and have more confidence in yourself. I'm not saying that you should not still question people's motives occassionally as that is only natural and will stop you being an easy target for guys who just want to use you (unfortunately guys like that do exist!:frown: ) Instead I think you should have faith in yourself that you are good enough as such for this guy, after all he clearly thinks you are.

Try and enjoy it as much as you can :biggrin: