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Am I gay?
Ok, I've never really been interested in guys before, but I've met this one guy who I really fancy so badly. I don't know what to do because I've never fancied guys before but I can't stop thinking about this one person.
Help!!!!!
Help!!!!!
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eh_crimbo
is it just some infatuation?! as in is he doing something which you really look up to, and want to be like him/him to like you...
No.
eh_crimbo
ok...that was my attempt at sounding intelligent...
do you have a gf?fancy girls?yeah, u could just be bi..
do you have a gf?fancy girls?yeah, u could just be bi..
no, I don't have a gf.
I really don't know what to do......I don't want t o be gay!
mipmapped
Does the thought of him turn you on? If so, you're gay.
If not, it could just be a crush.
If not, it could just be a crush.
Yeah. It does turn me on.
You could be gay, You could be bi. You might be going through a hormonal change that causes temporarily out of character behaviour. You could be what I have heard called a "people-sexual", ie, you are attracted to who you are attracted to and gender does not come into it.
Either way, dont worry. Labels and stigmas only cause harm. Be yourself and do what feels right.
Either way, dont worry. Labels and stigmas only cause harm. Be yourself and do what feels right.
Schmokie Dragon
You could be gay, You could be bi. You might be going through a hormonal change that causes temporarily out of character behaviour. You could be what I have heard called a "people-sexual", ie, you are attracted to who you are attracted to and gender does not come into it.
Either way, dont worry. Labels and stigmas only cause harm. Be yourself and do what feels right.
Either way, dont worry. Labels and stigmas only cause harm. Be yourself and do what feels right.
"people-sexual" - i never knew, explains what i feel for angelina jolie then..
It's not a decision that you need to immediately reach. Give it some time. A few weeks ago I actually thought I loved Sean Paul enough to marry him and subsequesntly have three of his babies. I'm sick of his album now, and I've called off the wedding.
Who knows, you could be gay, time will tell. Just be honest about how you feel. Btw- I noticed that you seem to have no issue with the prospect. This is good! Good luck
Who knows, you could be gay, time will tell. Just be honest about how you feel. Btw- I noticed that you seem to have no issue with the prospect. This is good! Good luck
justbrowsing
It's not a decision that you need to immediately reach. Give it some time. A few weeks ago I actually thought I loved Sean Paul enough to marry him and subsequesntly have three of his babies. I'm sick of his album now, and I've called off the wedding.
Who knows, you could be gay, time will tell. Just be honest about how you feel. Btw- I noticed that you seem to have no issue with the prospect. This is good! Good luck
Who knows, you could be gay, time will tell. Just be honest about how you feel. Btw- I noticed that you seem to have no issue with the prospect. This is good! Good luck
sean paul
How old are you? And have you had sexual feelings towards females before? I don't mean to sound patronising but it's not uncommon to have same-sex feelings while you're growing up. Sometimes they turn out into something more but they don't necessarily define your sexuality.
You could be emo.
~*Sweetness*~
How old are you? And have you had sexual feelings towards females before? I don't mean to sound patronising but it's not uncommon to have same-sex feelings while you're growing up. Sometimes they turn out into something more but they don't necessarily define your sexuality.
I agree - I'd wait and see what happens. Just feel what you feel - it doesn't matter what term you give it, that doesn't change it. Also, the plural of stigma is stigmata, not stigmas, just in case grammar was giving you more cause for concern!
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