help! pregnant/miscarriage? (bleeding)

i think i may be pregnant, well i think i might have got pregnant on the 1st :frown:

so it's 10 days since then.

i won't know if i am until after the 18th, when my period's due. but yesterday i bled a tiny bit, when my boyfriend was fingering me. i didn't think anything of it, well i wondered why but nothing happened after that.

but this morning when i woke up there was blood on my bed and when i went to the toilet i bled more, not as much as a period but still quite a lot.
now it's stopped, but my stomach hurts a bit. i've been having pains/cramps for a few days now. my breasts have been a bit sore as well, well my nipples mostly. i know they do sometimes hurt before my period so that could explain it, but it started last week.

i don't think it can be my period unless it's come 7 days early which never happens.

i don't know if it could be that i'm bleeding a bit because i'm pregnant, i read that you can get 'spotting' and bleed a bit around this time. or could it mean that i was pregnant and it's a miscarriage? isn't it too early for that? could it just be that my boyfriend did something yesterday when he was fingering me?

i have no idea, i don't know whether i should go to the doctors just to make sure. or should i just wait and see if i start bleeding again, if i do, go to the doctors, if i don't, wait til the 18th and see if my period comes?

please someone give me some advice!

Reply 1

anabelle

Go to the doctor. It could be anyhing, from nothing to serious...

Reply 2

hugatree

It's possible to be spotting as well when you're pregnant, not just when you're having a miscarriage. I say go see a doctor and make sure about the pregnancy.

Reply 3

rubytuesday

thanks for replying, i'll try to get a doctors appointment as soon as i can but it might not be til monday. still bleeding and it's scaring me :frown:

i don't know what to do, i can't tell my mum and i don't think it's bad enough to rushed to hospital or anything but it's not stopping. it's a bit more now as well, not spotting, but not a period. what about tampons, should i be using them if it's not a period? i'm so worried about doing the wrong thing if i am pregnant, i'm supposed to be going on the pill on the 1st day of my period as well, i don't know if i should be taking it now just in case it is my period come early, but i don't want to take it if i'm pregnant or if it is a miscarriage or something. i'm so confused!

Reply 4

Sarky

Phone NHS Direct on 08454747. Its confidential and they can give you appropriate advice. And/or if you have an NHS walk in centre nearby you could pop in there.

Reply 5

anabelle

I'd say go to the hospital. Just put on a pad and tell your mom you are going to a friends house or something. Dr. appointments can take long to get...

Reply 6

username47781

yeah i would phone that NHS line like now

Reply 7

Angelil

this might sound idiotic...but do a pregnancy test!

Reply 8

vbdm

and dont start the pill!
if you were to be preggers this could harm the baby.
wait until you are certain and have a next true period
hope its all sorted soon

Reply 9

*Kates*

I often come on my period a week before it's due, it's quite normal, but if i was you i would go to the doctors so you know what it is. When you have a miscarraige, it's often severe pains that you go through, but it's best to get checked asap.

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