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Getting back with ex...

Hi,
Me and my ex broke up ONE YEAR ago...it was a VERY short relationship, about one month long...

After that, we've just met each other on very brief occasions, around 5-6 times through the entire year,,,

And now it seems that we're getting back w/ each other...I've never gotten back with a girl before...whenever I have broken up with any girl, it was just straight breakup...

My question: How should I act?:confused:

My friends say I've changed a LOT over the past year...would she mind that or what?

Girls, what do you think?

Coz i'm quite clueless what to do or how to act, and the easiest way out seems to reject her....but i dont wanna do that!!!:frown:

Reply 1

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Reply 2

anjurdsg
Hi,
Me and my ex broke up ONE YEAR ago...it was a VERY short relationship, about one month long...

After that, we've just met each other on very brief occasions, around 5-6 times through the entire year,,,

And now it seems that we're getting back w/ each other...I've never gotten back with a girl before...whenever I have broken up with any girl, it was just straight breakup...

My question: How should I act?:confused:

My friends say I've changed a LOT over the past year...would she mind that or what?

Girls, what do you think?

Coz i'm quite clueless what to do or how to act, and the easiest way out seems to reject her....but i dont wanna do that!!!:frown:


she shouldnt mind if you've changed tbh if she does then she isn't worth it.... do you see this working?? if you do then go for it you never know wat could happen ... if not just suggest friends maybe?

Reply 3

Nobody stays the same forever - you'll have changed, but so will she. There must still be some sort of attraction between the two of you or you wouldn't be thinking about getting back together and who knows, maybe this time you'll suit each other better. Just act yourself and don't put on any front. If you both like what you see, there's no reason why it can't work out.

Reply 4

anjurdsg
Hi,
Me and my ex broke up ONE YEAR ago...it was a VERY short relationship, about one month long...

After that, we've just met each other on very brief occasions, around 5-6 times through the entire year,,,

And now it seems that we're getting back w/ each other...I've never gotten back with a girl before...whenever I have broken up with any girl, it was just straight breakup...

My question: How should I act?:confused:

My friends say I've changed a LOT over the past year...would she mind that or what?

Girls, what do you think?

Coz i'm quite clueless what to do or how to act, and the easiest way out seems to reject her....but i dont wanna do that!!!:frown:


Its entirely up to you, do what you want to do and don't take the easy route out because you may regret not getting back with her.
Act yourself dont act differently because of someone else, because by doing this you will be kidding yourself in who you are and then be kidding her about who you actually are. If she really likes you it shouldn't matter how you act.