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When to text!!

I'm going out with my guy friend tonight, haven't seen him since before xmas as he has just come back from Oxford now.

What time should I text him to ask what time we are meeting e.t.c. Note, he is unreliable with texting back!!

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Reply 1

Mark S

It'd help if you said when you're going out, lol. Oh well. No time like the present, get those thumbsa clickin' *sparkly wink*

Reply 2

Clarence

Erm around 7 ish i assume.

Reply 3

Mark S

Clarence

Erm around 7 ish i assume.

Just do it now. Don't give him enough time to put his phone down somewhere and forget about it.

Reply 4

Clarence

But that is what i am afraid he will do lol.

Reply 5

Dhesi

You might as well do it now, whats there to loose.

Reply 6

Mark S

Clarence

But that is what i am afraid he will do lol.

Do it now. The earlier you do it, the more likely the guy will see it.

Reply 7

Clarence

True True, thanks guys!!!

xxx

Reply 8

Creative02

ring him so you knw for sure!!!

Reply 9

Clarence

Oh haha, i don't want to appear desperate!

Reply 10

Mark S

Clarence

Oh haha, i don't want to appear desperate!

You dont want to appear uncaring either :wink:

Reply 11

Creative02

lol if im arranging something i would ring, not even bother to text...but thats me!!! few my mates hate talkin on the fone ?? dunno y?? :confused:

Reply 12

benamure

Creative02

ring him so you knw for sure!!!

That's what i was going to say. Phone calls are so much simpler. If he takes the call, he's hardly likely to forget to reply like he is with a text.

Plus, it saves him having to go through the relative effort of composing a text back, compared to just talking on the phone.

Ben

Reply 13

Mark S

Creative02

lol if im arranging something i would ring, not even bother to text...but thats me!!! few my mates hate talkin on the fone ?? dunno y?? :confused:

When on the phone it places some people on the spot. I mean, if you're having a j arthur and someone calls you its a bit annoying, but a text is ok because you can reply when you're done.

Reply 14

Clarence

hmmm... now contemplating whether he is a j arthur kind of person haha

I might call at around 4 ish? Does that sound ok?

Reply 15

Mark S

Clarence

hmmm... now contemplating whether he is a j arthur kind of person haha

I might call at around 4 ish? Does that sound ok?

4/5 i'd say. Thats the time where most people just cant be arsed to do anything and just sit there and do nothing.

Reply 16

jd27

Oh god... I'm sorry, but how is any of this an issue. Why are you overthinking this so much. You call him when you want to know what time you're meeting up later, he tells you. You don't text him as he may not text back. How is this problematic? What risk is there that he is going to make a decision on your personality because of the method by which you get in contact with him.

And as for him having a ****? For christs sake, he's not going to answer the phone is he? (Although I don't know, friends of mine have answered their phones during sex) But why on earth would you worry about such a thing?

Just stop worrying and do what works best with your plans. Don't walk on eggshells over something quite so minor.

Clarence