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best friend, ex boyfriend...

My ex boyfriend, who broke my heart and is HORRIBLE to me... is now having flirty late night conversations with one of my best friends. He's blowing me off, saying we should talk and then refusing to talk to me.... and then chatting with her for hours on MSN. she has a boyfriend... but she is the flirtiest person I know. She then displays tidbits of their convos on her MSN profile... so everyone can see. It really hurts me... especially since she's always like "he's SUCH an ass... you should get over him." but it really really upsets me that she talks to him more than she has to. What to do?

Reply 1

Angelic Sarah

Forget about him, hes an ass and is he really worth all the upset he is causing you?
As for your friend tell her how shes making you feel, she may not realise that she is upsetting you by doing this and may just think its a laugh.
If shes a real friend she will understand.

Reply 2

xavier2k3

1

Tell her how you feel, that's the only thing i can suggest. Tell him too if you want. If nothing changes, blow them both off and move on. If it's making you genuinally upset, that's the best thing to do.

regards
--marty

Reply 3

ladygrey

OP

xavier2k3

Tell him too if you want.

really??

also... i'm worried if i tell her that she'll tell him that i was like "you shouldnt talk to him"

Reply 4

Mark S

17

Maybe you both should move on.

Reply 5

ladygrey

OP

Markus Angelsdaughter

Maybe you both should move on.

its just difficult to move on if one of my best mates is talking to him all the time! she's supposed to be on my side... she always says she doesnt even like him!!!

Reply 6

Mark S

17

Correct me if im wrong, but this is your ex right? And this female friend of yours hasnt fallen out with you or anything. So what exactly is the problem? Your ex is your ex for a reason i assume.

Reply 7

xavier2k3

1

ladygrey

really??

also... i'm worried if i tell her that she'll tell him that i was like "you shouldnt talk to him"

yeh, definitely. infact, tell him first and then her. because he's the main cause for upsetting you isnt he.

regards
--marty

Reply 8

Creative02

1

ladygrey

its just difficult to move on if one of my best mates is talking to him all the time! she's supposed to be on my side... she always says she doesnt even like him!!!

ach now that would be annoying, tell ur mate that its pissing you off. shes your friend and should understand, that bloke sounds like a prick. your best off without him

Reply 9

ladygrey

OP

Creative02

ach now that would be annoying, tell ur mate that its pissing you off. shes your friend and should understand, that bloke sounds like a prick. your best off without him

yeahhh gah. i left a message on her cellphone to come round after she gets off work, and i briefly told her what i was upset about... she's also SUCH a gossipy person, i'm just worried she'll be blabbing it to everyone... i mean... i have a right to be annoyed, eh?

Reply 10

ladygrey

OP

xavier2k3

yeh, definitely. infact, tell him first and then her. because he's the main cause for upsetting you isnt he.

regards
--marty

i just dont want to be seen as "causing drama"

Reply 11

username47781

20

He's a complete loser, and im afraid i think you should ditch your friend as well as she is flirting with him knowing full well what happened between you two the fact shes flirting with him while she already has a boyfriend is wrong in my view, i'd ditch them both.

Reply 12

her0n

11

it is rather insensitive on her part, she's supposed to be your best friend after all.. :s-smilie:

and him? well he's a guy - what do you expect :/

Reply 13

ladygrey

OP

her0n

it is rather insensitive on her part, she's supposed to be your best friend after all.. :s-smilie:

and him? well he's a guy - what do you expect :/

well... not all guys are bad :p:

and i guess a this point... what she's doing isnt necessarily "mean" or "wrong"... more... unneccessary and insensitive. i just wish... people would think about how they're affecting others.

Reply 14

ladygrey

OP

CRAP. she won't talk to me now. CRAP. what am i supposed to dooooo

Reply 15

Sam Beckett

7

ladygrey

My ex boyfriend, who broke my heart and is HORRIBLE to me... is now having flirty late night conversations with one of my best friends. He's blowing me off, saying we should talk and then refusing to talk to me.... and then chatting with her for hours on MSN. she has a boyfriend... but she is the flirtiest person I know. She then displays tidbits of their convos on her MSN profile... so everyone can see. It really hurts me... especially since she's always like "he's SUCH an ass... you should get over him." but it really really upsets me that she talks to him more than she has to. What to do?

FFS woman, just get over him! Stop caring, get on with your own life and flirt with someone on MSN yourself! Was he your first boyfriend or something? First sex?

Seriously, move on and stop making so many threads :P

Maybe get a new friend too if she's teasing you but you really should be able to handle that since your ex was so HORRIBLE to you and all that. BTW are you 12 or 14?

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