horrible, heart-breaking... i need some TSR love :(

so this has been a horrible horrible gutting day. I found out today that one of my best friends (not anymore!) has gone behind my back, become friends with my ex-boyfriend (bonding over insulting me)... and she told me the rest of my friends had done the same, and that they all hated me (a lie... but a VERY hurtful one). I called my ex... who told me that a) it was true, b) he does not want to be friends anymore, c) he does not want me in his life, and d) he never cared about me. It was horribly horribly painful. He broke my heart for the second time. Oh guys... it was awful. I lost two friends in one day. I guess they aren't really my friends if they would do that. but oh god, im in pain. :frown:

Reply 1

waiting2smile

2

Well clearly she wasn't really a friend to begin with! Also this boy sounds quite horrid - in other words not worth crying over. I think that any boy that makes you cry isn't worth it. You're so much better off without them in your life, although probably doesn't seem like it now. *Offers infinite hugs*

Reply 2

Choad

1

*hugs*

cheer up. life is ****, the sooner you realise that the sooner you will enjoy the brief periods of not-**** as much as they need to be enjoyed

Reply 3

ladygrey

OP

waiting2smile

Well clearly she wasn't really a friend to begin with! Also this boy sounds quite horrid - in other words not worth crying over. I think that any boy that makes you cry isn't worth it. You're so much better off without them in your life, although probably doesn't seem like it now. *Offers infinite hugs*

thanks so much... if only i didnt have TWO classes with him tomorrow. crap. :frown:

Reply 4

Schmokie Dragon

17

Awww honey :frown:

*huge hugs*

keep your chin up, ok?

Reply 5

jb_sweden

Spread rumors about how small his is :p:

Reply 6

Choad

1

oh, i would also recomend emersing yourself in something you like.

for me, i go on a scrubs-athon. watch like 6 episodes in a row with a spliff (optional) its so good, its like a drug to me (well part of it is, but i was refering to the other bit).

Reply 7

Choad

1

Spread rumors about how small his is

ahh yes, malice. very rewarding, if somewhat prone to eventually turn round and bite you on the metaphorical ass

Reply 8

pumpkin7

13

to be honest, my friends yesterday were awfully frnk with me about some things that happened in the past, and i must say that it is an awful thing to go through. i can sort of relate to what you are saying and can only offer fake hugs and reassurance that things will pick up.
your boyfriend sounds horrible, and i don't think you need him as a friend.. as for your friends, anyone who goes behind your back to do anything, especially to consort with an ex, are really not worth a second of your time.
i know it seems bad now, but i'm sure you have plenty of other friends around to fall back on.. things will get better - they always do.
it is a horrible feeling when you have been betrayed.. we have all been through it.. but at least you have a load of.. weird...strangers.. on tsr to turn to :p:

hope everything works out for you.

Reply 9

Choad

1

oooh oooh! another classic strategy: pick someone up "on the rebound"

classy

Reply 10

waiting2smile

2

ladygrey

thanks so much... if only i didnt have TWO classes with him tomorrow. crap. :frown:

Ice-cold coolness. I think he deserves it - totally not necessary all this ‘hate’ stuff, shows a lot of immaturity on his part. Keep your composure. Don't give him the satisfaction of seeing you hurt. Be your wonderful self truly, show him what he's missing. I know it hurts so much right now but you have to be brave. Think ahead - in a few weeks you'll probably be wondering why you bothered being so upset about their loser-ish behaviour.

Reply 11

ladygrey

OP

waiting2smile

Ice-cold coolness. I think he deserves it - totally not necessary all this ‘hate’ stuff, shows a lot of immaturity on his part. Keep your composure. Don't give him the satisfaction of seeing you hurt. Be your wonderful self truly, show him what he's missing. I know it hurts so much right now but you have to be brave. Think ahead - in a few weeks you'll probably be wondering why you bothered being so upset about their loser-ish behaviour.

I know... I've just got to try... oh god... ah...

Reply 12

ladygrey

OP

Choad

oh, i would also recomend emersing yourself in something you like.

for me, i go on a scrubs-athon. watch like 6 episodes in a row with a spliff (optional) its so good, its like a drug to me (well part of it is, but i was refering to the other bit).

oooh i adore scrubs. i actually just watched a bit of sex and the city, though. :smile:

Reply 13

Flank Runner

First off *hugs *

Second any guy who does that deserves a swift kicking
(I offer my services as a hitman :p:

)

A person that can so easily go behind your back like that cannot and should not be called a friend

What you need to do, is a find a good man, who loves you and respects you and treats you like a queen, and forget about that fool, for the only thing that awaits him is a very lonely life

So cheer, get out and have fun, the worlds your oyster, unless your allergic to seafood in which case its erm :rolleyes:

chocolate, yeah chocolate

Reply 14

Monkey_Maiden

11

Hugs
Thats so horrible of them to do that to you!
Obv they don't deserve you as their friend and in time might realise what they have lost
Kepp smiling :smile:

Or try to

Reply 15

Anonymous #1

I had this a few years ago....only he turned the whole year against me apart from 2 people, all because I didn't want to have sex with him so soon. I had to leave that school. Boys suck, but girls can be even worse I'm afraid.You're a better person than they and other people will see that. As fun as it would be to start rumours, remember revenge is a dish best served cold............

Reply 16

username47781

20

Oh what a nasty piece of work he is, oh he better get whats coming to him ask for the girl she is equally stupid if it all goes wrong for her and she tries come crawling back to you don't let her back.

Reply 17

Princess Elle

2

ladygrey

so this has been a horrible horrible gutting day. I found out today that one of my best friends (not anymore!) has gone behind my back, become friends with my ex-boyfriend (bonding over insulting me)... and she told me the rest of my friends had done the same, and that they all hated me (a lie... but a VERY hurtful one). I called my ex... who told me that a) it was true, b) he does not want to be friends anymore, c) he does not want me in his life, and d) he never cared about me. It was horribly horribly painful. He broke my heart for the second time. Oh guys... it was awful. I lost two friends in one day. I guess they aren't really my friends if they would do that. but oh god, im in pain. :frown:

get new friends...and you do have friends on here, like me

*hugs* i'll be there for you! what b******! so many people out there are like her.....i know the feeling. But there are your loved ones there to help and support you. She will get what is coming to her don't worry! WE ARE ALL HERE FOR YOU SO FORGET ABOUT THOSE ******* :smile:

she was probably jealous of you. the most important thing is NOT TO LET IT GET TO YOU. find a distraction e.g music, celebs etc anything that you like :biggrin:

Reply 18

Princess Ella

*hugs* fcking b****-forget her--what really annoys me is that there are quite a lot of people like her. But then again there are people who love you and will never do the things she did to you-im one of them! *hugs* and gives lady grey loads of TSR LOVE!! WE'LL ALWAYS BE THERE FOR YOU-SO DONT WORRY!!!!! Keep smiling xxxx Ella :suith:

Reply 19

username47781

20

I'd say next time she needs you just give her the cold shoulder that will upset her more.

horrible, heart-breaking... i need some TSR love :(

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