Best Friend Crush... Again!

I've posted before about having a crush on my best friend...

I'm ok now with when or if he tells me he's found someone else. I think. But after a while of not seeing him, he's being much more.. Cuddly, and kissy. He never usually kisses me, but he's taken to kissing me on the cheek before he goes, and he'll kiss my hands when we're just messing around. I'm not so sure that in itself is any huge sign, he has many many female friends, because of how he is.

He decided yesterday he wanted to write me a letter. What would you write in a letter to someone you speak to almost daily and can see whenever you want? Also, even if they just live up the road and you want to post it?! I know I've pretty much put ideas into your heads, and so you'll know what I'm maybe thinking it might be about (him admitting feelings??) but I want to stop thinking that because it probably won't be. What else would you write in a letter like that?

Reply 1

La Trampa

maybe he wants to get it of fhis chest that he used to fancy you before,or he doesn't know how to tell you in your face that he fancies you or something.

Reply 2

Anonymous #2

If there is something going on with me, that I want to tell my best friend, I sometimes write a letter or even a long e-mail to him instead of actually taking to him at first.

Sometimes it's things that I just haven't been able to say to him (maybe I couldn't say what I wanted to to start the conversation, or maybe it's just because the right time hadn't yet presented itself - it's for various reasons really), and I want to, or at other times I just know exactly what I want to say, but I know if I tell him in person he might want to talk whilst I'm telling him this but I want to get it all out first without interruptions. Or, I might worry about what he's going to think whilst I'm trying to say what I want to say, so he gets the whole story first (and I don’t try and interpret every action his face makes whilst I’m saying what I want to say and have to ask him what he thinks every 30 seconds) and has the opportunity to think about what I've said before we talk.

Then once he's read the thing I've wrote, we discuss it like a pair of old women.