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he keeps cheating!!!
ok basically i dated a guy in Nov for about a month. he dumped me after pressuring me nonstop to lose my V with him, and said 'do it or i'll leave'. i left him. before we dated, i saw hhim date kiss another girl, but he later denied this
then after we'd broken up, he told me he had a long term gf. i got her number secretly and i called her up and told her about me. he got mad, but she was so sweet - she was younger than me, and seemed insecure. i also saw her pic in his room tho he said she was his cousin at the time - she was unattractive.but she is such a nice girl. he is her 1st bf and she lost her V with him
then i met another girl at uni who he had a date with, just like a week after he denied everthing about me to his gf. this girl said to me 'hi havenet i seen you with X' and i said 'yes. im also very good friends with his long term gf' lol. she got mad at him, and he was more mad at me. then i told this to his gf by txt (he said to her not to speak to me or he'll dump her)
last week he was with her, she'd come to visit. so i went up and introduced myself. she is a nice girl. he threatened me if i spoke to hher agian he will starighten me out,. and it hurts me to see someone cheated on again and again
a minute ago i saw him kissing yet another girl. what do i do?
should i
then after we'd broken up, he told me he had a long term gf. i got her number secretly and i called her up and told her about me. he got mad, but she was so sweet - she was younger than me, and seemed insecure. i also saw her pic in his room tho he said she was his cousin at the time - she was unattractive.but she is such a nice girl. he is her 1st bf and she lost her V with him
then i met another girl at uni who he had a date with, just like a week after he denied everthing about me to his gf. this girl said to me 'hi havenet i seen you with X' and i said 'yes. im also very good friends with his long term gf' lol. she got mad at him, and he was more mad at me. then i told this to his gf by txt (he said to her not to speak to me or he'll dump her)
last week he was with her, she'd come to visit. so i went up and introduced myself. she is a nice girl. he threatened me if i spoke to hher agian he will starighten me out,. and it hurts me to see someone cheated on again and again
a minute ago i saw him kissing yet another girl. what do i do?
should i
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stay out of it!
Let him be you did the right thing ditching him, no use warning the girls let them find out the hard way what a love rat he is, you was right now to bow to the pressure he was giving you to lose it.
i know i know.
honestly i have no feelings for him - not bad, not good feelings. just neutral. emotionally we were more like friends who went on a few dates.so its not revenge.
its just i feel so so sorry for this girl. she is young, insecure, with her first ever bf who she trusts.we've all been there.
when i first toild her, she started crying on the phone. and i just feel awful for her. i want to help her. i really care. cos he is just abusing her trust and she is too insecure to leave. she wants to believes him because she wants to think what he is saying is true. i dont want her to find out the hard way.
honestly i have no feelings for him - not bad, not good feelings. just neutral. emotionally we were more like friends who went on a few dates.so its not revenge.
its just i feel so so sorry for this girl. she is young, insecure, with her first ever bf who she trusts.we've all been there.
when i first toild her, she started crying on the phone. and i just feel awful for her. i want to help her. i really care. cos he is just abusing her trust and she is too insecure to leave. she wants to believes him because she wants to think what he is saying is true. i dont want her to find out the hard way.
camera phone. And if he threatens you again, call the police; they'll sort him out for that.
Hold on, maybe you should just walk away and forget it, but like you said its not nice see someone else get treated like that, anyway did I read right that hes told you to back off or he'll 'straighten you out'? What exactly does he mean by that? sounds like a threat of physical violence to me, so personally if the guys gonna threaten a woman, or anyone for that matter, he needs to be taught a 'lesson', so i reckon you should maybe help that girl become more confident in herself so she have the balls to see him for what he is and know she's worth more. Then he'll be alone, just as he should be.
ooo n then if he does try n 'straighten you out' kick him in the nuts, wear pointy shoes mind.
ooo n then if he does try n 'straighten you out' kick him in the nuts, wear pointy shoes mind.
Oh stay well away!He sounds like a complete prick, like the other posters have said warn other girls if you see him trying his luck with them too.
i know someone similar, i just didn't have the guts to tell his long term *deaf* girlfriend, still feel really guilty about it but my mates have told me it's him who should feel guilty and i should just let him get on with it
shinytoy
ok basically i dated a guy in Nov for about a month. he dumped me after pressuring me nonstop to lose my V with him, and said 'do it or i'll leave'. i left him. before we dated, i saw hhim date kiss another girl, but he later denied this
then after we'd broken up, he told me he had a long term gf. i got her number secretly and i called her up and told her about me. he got mad, but she was so sweet - she was younger than me, and seemed insecure. i also saw her pic in his room tho he said she was his cousin at the time - she was unattractive.but she is such a nice girl. he is her 1st bf and she lost her V with him
then i met another girl at uni who he had a date with, just like a week after he denied everthing about me to his gf. this girl said to me 'hi havenet i seen you with X' and i said 'yes. im also very good friends with his long term gf' lol. she got mad at him, and he was more mad at me. then i told this to his gf by txt (he said to her not to speak to me or he'll dump her)
last week he was with her, she'd come to visit. so i went up and introduced myself. she is a nice girl. he threatened me if i spoke to hher agian he will starighten me out,. and it hurts me to see someone cheated on again and again
a minute ago i saw him kissing yet another girl. what do i do?
should i
then after we'd broken up, he told me he had a long term gf. i got her number secretly and i called her up and told her about me. he got mad, but she was so sweet - she was younger than me, and seemed insecure. i also saw her pic in his room tho he said she was his cousin at the time - she was unattractive.but she is such a nice girl. he is her 1st bf and she lost her V with him
then i met another girl at uni who he had a date with, just like a week after he denied everthing about me to his gf. this girl said to me 'hi havenet i seen you with X' and i said 'yes. im also very good friends with his long term gf' lol. she got mad at him, and he was more mad at me. then i told this to his gf by txt (he said to her not to speak to me or he'll dump her)
last week he was with her, she'd come to visit. so i went up and introduced myself. she is a nice girl. he threatened me if i spoke to hher agian he will starighten me out,. and it hurts me to see someone cheated on again and again
a minute ago i saw him kissing yet another girl. what do i do?
should i
not being funny, you split up with him in november for being an arse... now its march. what do you do? nothing. Stop stalking him and whomever hes with. plenty of fish in the sea and all that... you should spread your net a little bit.
dont get me wrong, i dont still fancy him or anything. i found out about his gf like the end of jan.
i just cant stand to see her getting played so badly. i mean, if you had a bf/gf away at uni and you trusted them totally, yet they had been with say 4/5 other partners since, wouldnt you want to know?
i want to warn his other exploits before they date him, of the fact he already had a gf. but at the same time i want to stay clear of him.
i just cant stand to see her getting played so badly. i mean, if you had a bf/gf away at uni and you trusted them totally, yet they had been with say 4/5 other partners since, wouldnt you want to know?
i want to warn his other exploits before they date him, of the fact he already had a gf. but at the same time i want to stay clear of him.
Personally I'd leave it. Isn't really anyones business but his and just digging further could get you in some trouble/problems (considering he threatened you already). I understand about you wanting to warn them, but like I said, I'd just stay out of it 
End of the day, he's the one who's getting to get into many more problems later on and not you
End of the day, he's the one who's getting to get into many more problems later on and not you
just keep away!!!!! the answer is so simple, why get messed around by an idiot
she doesnt know. she says she doesnt believe me. the thing is, its well known he is a playa at uni - since i told her about me, he has been at kleast on dates with around 6 other girls. im sorry for her, and im also sorry for all the other girls. if i can help then i will but really i 'd just look like an obsessed ex.
if you've told her, and she refuses to believe you, then its her problem now. don't try and get in touch with her again - when she finally finds out and accepts the truth, she'll have friends who will help her deal with it. you've done all you can, there really isn't anything more you can do to help. best thing is to just forget about the whole situation. its out of your hands now.
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