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Relationship Question

I have been with my current boyfriend for almost a year now. 3 months ago he cheated on me with my best friend however and I have never truly gotten over this. I finished with him, then took him back and thn finished with him AGAIN. Think is I kept on finishin an thn taking him back cos I was so confused. Hes so nice an he made a drunken mistake, thing is I have finally decided that I DEFINITLY dnt want to be with him but I don't know how to go about finishing because I do not want to upset him and I know I will seriously upset him by doing this. Also my friends do not approve of the fact tht I even gave him another chance In the first place Any advice????
thnx:P
Just tell him you can never trust him again after what he did
Reply 2
he wasn't that bothered about upsetting you (or he wouldn't have cheated) so just tell him.
like all above have said just tell him you can't trust him ever again after what he did.
Reply 4
If you feel that just saying it blunt like that would upset him (i dnt see why you care so much even though he's been quite an idiot), then you could say that you took him back because you had hoped that you will get over the situation, and you've tried, but you clearly havent been able to...so you feel it is for the best that you two arent together. He might understand your reasons a bit more this way, perhaps? Hope it helps, and good luck...