i think all guys/girls lie.
i cant stand people who lie about their virginity.
i mean i can understand why you would lie - if a guy said he had been with like 57 people i would be grossed out and think he didnt value a)sex that much b) the women it was with c)intimacy d)long term monogamy e)was not trustworthy.f)may have STDsg) is insensitive
i mean a guy knows i havent slept with another guy, i will not sleep with him, and therefore i will not sleep with another guy behind his back. so having none/few partners means a)values sexual intimacy b)places value on emotions rather than body c)has self control d)is trustworthy e) is likely to be std free
so it does matter, and people who dont answer have something to hids.
an average number shows you are comfortable with your body and sex.
also, do i need to be honest at the start and say i dont believe in having sex and have never done so, or can i also just keep refusing my bf's advances and when he asks why i just say its none of their business