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Why???

Ok im supposed 2 be going on a date with this guy 2nite...we arranged it last week and he has text me a few times since and its been really good. i texted him yesterday saying where am i meeting u etc and he didnt reply!! This isnt usually like him..we've arranged the time and we're meeting at his work i just dont know where exactly im supposed 2 b seeing him. I sent him another text 2day suggesting where 2 meet and again no reply. He doesnt usually ignore me, he always replies, im wondering if he hasnt got any credit or something. When he was supposed 2 b going to the same club as me once he sent me a msg saying he couldnt get there so ignoring me really isnt like him...what do u guys think? should i turn up there 2 meet him or not?
Reply 1
richardrox

Perhaps you could phone him, in which case he can reply whether he has credit or not?


yeah i've thought about that but he's working now and might not be able to answer his phone and then i'll get paranoid about it...he finishes work at half 4 and im supposed 2 be meeting him at 5...if i ring him at half 4 its cutting it a bit fine
Reply 2
Well you know where he works, just not the exact place. Get there at half 4 and phone him. Unless he works somewhere in Canary Wharf you have plenty of time :smile:.
Don't go and then say it's because you didn't hear back from him. Either way he's the one who didn't reply so he can't blame you for not showing up
It seems bit odd and if I was in that position I know I would get worried :smile: Maybe ring him after work or turn up at his place and ring him saying your there
Saying that hope hes not trying to blow you off :frown:
Reply 5
Phones probaly got flat batteries - i always get in the shi t because i lose my charger e.t.c.
Give him a call - if it goes straight to the voice mail, there is your reason.
ok, well i agree u shld phone him, but cant believe hes not contacted you. turn up and if he doesnt turn up, what a complete idiot. if he does turn up tell him you werent sure wther u were meant to still be meeting, and cld he be a bit more clear about it next time!! lol enjoy you date