The Student Room Group

mystery behaviour

i recently bumped into a lad who i know through friends in town one night a few weeks ago. since he lives nearby we shared a taxi and then he walked me home. we swapped numbers and i thought nothing of it until he started texting me telling me he liked me. we texted and met up another night in town. we ended up going back to his place at the end of the night, and talked til the early hours, we then went to bed (just for sleep!) and he walked me home later that day. i ran out of credit so i didnt text him as often, then when i got credit a few days later i texted him again. about four days after i texted him, he replied saying he was sorry he hadnt texted earlier (altho no explanation) and how was i etc. this was about a week ago, and i havent heard from him since. im pretty miffed, as i never considered him in "that way" until he suggested it. now it just hurts, as he seemed so keen, and then....nothing. all i want is an explanation - was it something i did?:confused:
trouble with some guys like that they just go hot and cold and the sad thing is there's no explanation for it, only way u will get an explanation is probably by either seeing him again or ringing him.
Maybe he's just been really busy recently? Or out of / low on credit? Ask him - sounds like he's still keen.
Reply 3
he might have found someone else... ? i don't know..

maybe he is low on credit like you were.. maybe his phone was stolen.. maybe he was grounded and had his phone taken off him..

there are so many reasons..
Reply 4
ok, but hes 21 with a full time job. which eliminates the prospect of him being grounded/skint.