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cant stand being on my own

Im at uni in my first year but I live on my own, due to sending off my accomodation application form too late. I have plenty of friends and a reasonably active social life, but as all of them have heavy workloads, there tends to be a few nights a week where I'm alone at home. I have work and plenty of other things to occupy me, but i absolutely cant stand not having anyone to talk to. I know it sounds stupid but I feel so lonely and tend to end up getting really upset. I am living in a house with friends next year so it wont be an issue, but at the momment i am counting down the days til i move so i wont feel like a loser stuck in here on my own! I know this isnt a huge problem im jus interested to see if anyone else feels the same or has any suggestions. Thank you in advance! :smile:
Reply 1
Yeah i am a warden in one of the halls of residence here in Plymouth and i get like that sometimes. Especially tonight, im on duty now so i cant leave the building even if i wanted to. It sucks.....
If you're at Uni try joining some clubs or societies on the days you are alone or else try getting a boyfriend or whatever (sorry if you already have one) - just a suggestion.

But you're right about feeling upset when alone - humans are designed to interact with others.

There is also always the option of just sticking it out until next year, but try and find something to do in the meantime.

Good luck and take care :smile:
BirchyGreen
Yeah i am a warden in one of the halls of residence here in Plymouth and i get like that sometimes. Especially tonight, im on duty now so i cant leave the building even if i wanted to. It sucks.....


Well you got TSR!! Perosnally I like being on my own......

:tsr2:
you have to learn to enjoy your own company, you will probably be wishing for it back when u move in with friends¬!
Reply 5
naivesincerity
Well you got TSR!! Perosnally I like being on my own......

:tsr2:


Indeed.....
Reply 6
so_this_is_sam
you have to learn to enjoy your own company, you will probably be wishing for it back when u move in with friends¬!


****wit. She doesn't like BEING alone!