What should I do???

I would say yes.
Ask her. It seems like its really worth it, and if its as you say then things seem great between you an i hope things work.

You may not think so, but you'll regret if you let this slip. Think in a few years time, if your wondering about not having asked her. It'll be horrible - go for it.

And i'm intrigued about your "Love is when silence is comfortable" comment. Im in that kinda situation now. I wont explain further its just really made me think.

love-if it is love tehn u will meet again-does she know about ur feeling for her?-god i love nothing better than LOVE!!

Don't tell her. Bad news for the friendship.

I would say tell her - do or die. Never have regrets

If something's changed for the better, and you were already pretty close, then I can't understand what else it could be?

Re seeing her every weekend... ask her, that's the only way you'll know if it's too much. We can't say how much she wants to see you, but if you are as close as you say you are, I think she would like to see you as much as possible.

If you love her... go for it. Life's too short not to try to be with those you love. Good luck!!!

I love that proverb

I know that I love a friend of mine, one of my best and closest friends, and I would do anything in the world for her, and I know it sounds stupid, but you don't know me, but I'd give up snowboarding for her. To me, that is the biggest sacrifice I can make, and she is the only one I'd do that for.

The problem that arises is that she will be moving to Canada in July, and I don't want her to feel trapped, like half of her wants to go to Canada and the other half wants to stay with me, as that is what I am afraid of.

I only ever want what is best for her, and if we are never together, and only friends, as long as she's happy that is good enough for me.

The other problem is that I'm in Sheffield and she's in kent at the moment, but I'd be more that willing to go down every weekend to see her, but would it be too much?


She knows that I am always there for her, no matter what happens, she knows that she can talk to me about anything, and we trust each other so much it is wonderful, but I don't know if she knows how much I love her.

She knows that I love her as a friend, and I know that she loves me as a friend, but I don't know if she loves me like I love her, or if she has realised that I'm mad about her, but something has changed between us recently, and for the better. We are much closer than ever before, and as the proverb says: "Love is when silence is comfortable" and we could spend forever just not talking, but knowing what the other is thinking.


So it all boils down to this: should I ask her out or not?



P.S. - Sorry bout the length of it, and thanks for taking the time to read this far.

I'm having a similar dilemma. I've been friends with this girl for ages and have always really liked her, and recently I think there might be a small possibility she might say yes if I actually asked her out. I'm really unsure though, but know that if I don't do something soon, it will be too late, as we're going off to uni in september. I've considered just asking her to the prom first, as I think she'd probably say yes to that, and then seeing where it went from there, but by then it might be too late

Mate, after all this, I've realised that I'm gonna take the chance when I next see her, and ask her out. I know that she could say no, but if that happens, I'll just let her know that nothing will change between the friendship, and I'll still love her as much. If you try the same thing, you'll either end up with a great girlfriend, or an even better friend in my opinion.

Best of luck for you though.