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shy vs forward

Poll

dominant or submissive?

just out of curiousity i was wondering do u like your partners to be dominant or a little more submissive. this is mostly aimed at the guys but i kinda want to know if women still want a more dominant men as well as what men think of more dominant women.
Reply 1
i like more dominant girls definitely, probably because i'm not all that outgoing.

regards
--marty
I don't like overly dominent women and I don't like overly shy ones either. I like a girl who knows her own mind but is prepared to listen and take your opinion on equal merit as her own.
Reply 3
I don't have much choice with my fiance. He is a lot more outgoing than me, he just has that confidence that I am still working on. I don't mind though - let him be.
I would prefer maybe a more dominant guy as I'm quite shy myslef but shy guys are also really cute and appealing, like you just wanna look after them hehe :smile:
I voted for being even with my bf
Reply 5
high priestess fnord
just out of curiousity i was wondering do u like your partners to be dominant or a little more submissive. this is mostly aimed at the guys but i kinda want to know if women still want a more dominant men as well as what men think of more dominant women.

In terms of relationship preferably equal, but submissive is ok.

In terms of sex, I prefer very submissive most of the time, and perhaps occasionally dominant for a change, equal would be very boring for a kinky person like me.
Reply 6
I like slightly dominant men (not OTT dominant, but as in they know what they want, and put up with me! :p: ). I never get anywhere with submissive/shy guys - I find it really hard work to keep a conversation going with them.
definitely dominant guys, but i like to have a say in things. i just prfer him to be in control of..things :P lol
Reply 8
Ariadne
I like slightly dominant men (not OTT dominant, but as in they know what they want, and put up with me! :p: ). I never get anywhere with submissive/shy guys - I find it really hard work to keep a conversation going with them.


I know what you mean! Shy guys can sometimes lead to many awkward silences.
Oh, I thought this was about sex... and then I read everyone's comments.


In terms of sex, I love to be dominated (by a man, I'm a woman). Mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
Equally as dominant (or passive).