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Why is SEX painfull to women?
Is SEX painful to all women? Or just a few?
Please help with some info...
Please help with some info...
sex is painful if the girl hasn't had sex in a while, or if she is a virgin, because she will have tightened up. it's actually a horrible feeling, as if you are being stretched too far.
sex can also be painful, or at least uncomfortable, if the penis bashes against her cervix too hard. i find this sensation awful.
really, for me, getting an orgasm from sex is beyond my wildest dreams. my target for now is to enjoy sex, because although i want to, my body won't allow me. it is physically painful.
sex can also be painful, or at least uncomfortable, if the penis bashes against her cervix too hard. i find this sensation awful.
really, for me, getting an orgasm from sex is beyond my wildest dreams. my target for now is to enjoy sex, because although i want to, my body won't allow me. it is physically painful.
erm, sex isnt really painful for women. Some women experience pain during the loss of virginity through breaking of the hymen.
Women who continue to feel such pain tend to be those who are expecting it to hurt and then they tense up so their bloke has to stretch them more to get in.
Also, smaller women and bigger men have a factor to play! If you're small and he's big, it'll take the vagina time to get used to the pain levels.
Women who continue to feel such pain tend to be those who are expecting it to hurt and then they tense up so their bloke has to stretch them more to get in.
Also, smaller women and bigger men have a factor to play! If you're small and he's big, it'll take the vagina time to get used to the pain levels.
Anonymous
sex is painful if the girl hasn't had sex in a while, or if she is a virgin, because she will have tightened up. it's actually a horrible feeling, as if you are being stretched too far.
sex can also be painful, or at least uncomfortable, if the penis bashes against her cervix too hard. i find this sensation awful.
really, for me, getting an orgasm from sex is beyond my wildest dreams. my target for now is to enjoy sex, because although i want to, my body won't allow me. it is physically painful.
sex can also be painful, or at least uncomfortable, if the penis bashes against her cervix too hard. i find this sensation awful.
really, for me, getting an orgasm from sex is beyond my wildest dreams. my target for now is to enjoy sex, because although i want to, my body won't allow me. it is physically painful.
Hmmm, not sure I entirely agree, it sounds more as though it's a problem with technique. Try different positions and don't expect to get orgasms from the vagina itself because, if I remember rightly, there isn't a particularly good nerve supply there. Most stimulation should be clitoral.
no, really, it can get physically painful! I cant orgasm at all, and my muscles get so tense its painful. sometimes walking the next day can be painful too.
Zymoen
Hmmm, not sure I entirely agree, it sounds more as though it's a problem with technique. Try different positions and don't expect to get orgasms from the vagina itself because, if I remember rightly, there isn't a particularly good nerve supply there. Most stimulation should be clitoral.
no offence, but i think you misread my post. i know that there's no way i'm going to have an orgasm from penetration because i just never have, and it doesn't feel good. i know about clitoral stimulation and have had many orgasms from that. i've tried lots of different positions, and in several different relationships too. sex just hurts me for me, every single time. so i don't care if you don't "entirely agree", because it's my body, and believe me, i entirely tell you that it hurts, EVERY TIME! i don't need sex tips when i'm well aware of my own body - i was just expaining to the OP (who is a boy, i think, and therefore might not understand) exactly WHY sex hurts women.
seriously! Everytime! is he on the big size? im sure it shouldnt be!
Lauren Hart
seriously! Everytime! is he on the big size? im sure it shouldnt be!
he is on the big side. the only boy it hasn't hurt with was on the small side, but even then, it didn't feel good. it just felt repetative and annoying.
Maybe you just don't like sex?
Anyhoo, is sex painful for women? Depends on the woman and the situation. Anon is right that it is damn painful if it hits the cervix. If you are too rough or too long, this may be a persistent problem. If it happens to me I tend to curl up and cry. Its THAT bad!
But in general sex shouldnt be painful. If it is you should think about whether sex at all is a good idea.
Anyhoo, is sex painful for women? Depends on the woman and the situation. Anon is right that it is damn painful if it hits the cervix. If you are too rough or too long, this may be a persistent problem. If it happens to me I tend to curl up and cry. Its THAT bad!
But in general sex shouldnt be painful. If it is you should think about whether sex at all is a good idea.
i do like sex. i think about it often and i get really aroused by foreplay. i love the idea of sex, but it just phsyically hurts.
hmm, it was suggested on the other one to see a doctor, might be worth it, you might have some muscle damage or something and just need a small op to sort it out!
the only time I've ever found it painful is when doing it in the wrong position..I never found losing my virginity painful..
simstu666
Get some KY on their and lube it up. That also opens up the option of anal sex.. you know.. taking it up the wrong'en.
Anonymous
really, for me, getting an orgasm from sex is beyond my wildest dreams. my target for now is to enjoy sex, because although i want to, my body won't allow me. it is physically painful.
really, for me, getting an orgasm from sex is beyond my wildest dreams. my target for now is to enjoy sex, because although i want to, my body won't allow me. it is physically painful.
hey i have the same problem, im so glad im not the only one !!
its hurts me sometimes, no idea why
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