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Reply 1

*Farfalla*
Really really really hurts :frown:

Anyone else have similar feelings?



Sorry Im not sure what that words means..?

Reply 2

simstu666
Sorry Im not sure what that words means..?


Loving/having feelings for someone who doesn't feel the same way back

Reply 3

Personally, I don't believe you can 'love' someone, unless its mutual. I think you can have deep feelings, care a lot about them, and want to be with them, but I still hold that 'love' is something that both people have to feel.
Unless you love somebody who stops loving you. That hurts like hell, you have my complete sympathy if that's happened to you.
Otherwise, just work on it, and try and build up a strong friendship with the person, and hope that it can become more. Relax around them, be yourself, and if it doesn't work out, you'll find someone else to care about eventually, just try stay postive! :smile:
Best of luck, anyway xxxx

Reply 4

Farfalla - yes, I've been there, and it's beautiful but agonising when it happens. Just hang in there. I didn't gain a lover from the bloke that I loved so very much, but I did gain a very good friend. There's always some hope.

Reply 5

i feel like that all the time-until i met ****** im sure he likes me back-its hard i know-ive been heart broken-like the other guys have said hang on and u will meet a guy one day who will love u the same way u love him-good luck!!

Reply 6

shinyhappy
Personally, I don't believe you can 'love' someone, unless its mutual. I think you can have deep feelings, care a lot about them, and want to be with them, but I still hold that 'love' is something that both people have to feel.
Unless you love somebody who stops loving you. That hurts like hell, you have my complete sympathy if that's happened to you.
Otherwise, just work on it, and try and build up a strong friendship with the person, and hope that it can become more. Relax around them, be yourself, and if it doesn't work out, you'll find someone else to care about eventually, just try stay postive! :smile:
Best of luck, anyway xxxx



Well first of all your chatting sh*t. So sod off.

Yeah I've been in that sitation, a chick I once knew, really nice girl, lovely she was and so good looking it was f**king outrageous. I was mental about her but she didnt feel the same way. You just have to try and forget about him/her, it takes a while but you do eventually.

Reply 7

Angelil
Farfalla - yes, I've been there, and it's beautiful but agonising when it happens. Just hang in there. I didn't gain a lover from the bloke that I loved so very much, but I did gain a very good friend. There's always some hope.


Yeah I didnt even get a friend, so I might just go and cut myself...

Reply 8

yeah, I had that for years.

Its one of the most painful experiences I have ever been through, barring the death of a loved one.

My advice: get it out of your head if you can!

Reply 9

simstu666 - calm down. Yes, its painful and you may not agree with her but she is entitled to her opinion.

Reply 10

Well anyone who is a bit of a dreamer and has "too high standards" has known unrequited love. What are the chances that a person you find amazingly attractive in every way is going to feel the same way? It's just a matter of numbers.

Most people just settle for what's available.

Reply 11

simstu666
Well first of all your chatting sh*t. So sod off.

Yeah I've been in that sitation, a chick I once knew, really nice girl, lovely she was and so good looking it was f**king outrageous. I was mental about her but she didnt feel the same way. You just have to try and forget about him/her, it takes a while but you do eventually.


It's called expressing an opinion. I'm not asking you to agree with me, I'm sure many people don't. No need to swear at me. So sod off yourself.

Reply 12

SamTheMan
Well anyone who is a bit of a dreamer and has "too high standards" has known unrequited love. What are the chances that a person you find amazingly attractive in every way is going to feel the same way? It's just a matter of numbers.

Most people just settle for what's available.


I like your logic, it makes me feel better :rolleyes:

Reply 13

Damdam
I like your logic, it makes me feel better :rolleyes:


Indeed it shouldn't. Basically, it's unlikely that you end up with someone you really really like. We always end up settling for second best. But in the end that usually doesn't matter because once you're with someone and you fall for them, the idea of being with someone else doesn't seem so attractive any longer.

Reply 14

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