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3months
It depends when you are ready to, but don't do it too quickly though, lol
5 days after he first called (and we went out and subsequently kissed); known him vaguely before that. Been together over a year now.
If she don't screw in two*, she aint for you.

*Two dates.
Depends so much on the person and what feels right. I've had two long-term relationships: in the first, we didn't sleep together until four or five months into the relationship, and in the second, we'd been seeing each other about two weeks :wink: (although known each other for another two months before that). I never have a 'rule' for how long to wait. It's just whatever feels right at the time.
Reply 6
I've only had sex with one person, and we were going out for around 5 or 6 months before we had sex.
cat_meiow
How long into a relationship do/did you wait before you slept/sleep with them roughly?

I waited bout 3 months with my current boyfriend but known him for like 7 years.


Would you count it "waiting" if you had oral sex in that period? I don't think I would.
Reply 8
Anonymous
Would you count it "waiting" if you had oral sex in that period? I don't think I would.


are you referring to me?
3 months and was first relationship :smile:
Reply 10
Ive slept with 1 person after 6 months. Been with him nearly 3 years.
Reply 11
depends how desperate you are for sex
cat_meiow
are you referring to me?


No just speaking in general. I don't think it would count as waiting. Just my opinion.
Reply 13
i waited 3 weeks. It was my first time and i've now been with the guy for 2 years :smile:
18 months.

Don't ask.
Woah people...How do you persuade your other halves to do that. Me? I ain't got one so no use asking lol
Reply 16
One after a couple of weeks, one after a couple of hours :redface:
Reply 17
I slept with my current boyfriend before we got together. The one before I waited about 4 months.
some are easier to persuade than others...alcohol tips the balance in your favour...hmmm what else has that effect i wonder...
Reply 19
t'was 3 months.. and we had been together for 3 months.. so whey.