Making it clear?

Sorry for anonymous as usual - other people involved know my name here.

Situation with a girl, and things have developed cos now we both know we like each other, but weve got to the point where me 'asking her out' would sound stupid cos we've already made ourselves clear.

So what would i say to make things kinda solid and confirmed if you get me? Or do i even need to?

Reply 1

Drogue

Ask her out. If you're not officially going out, asking is necessary. Just say "I'd like to take you out to dinner". Then during dinner chat to her about how you feel and ask her if she'd like you to be a couple. Or better yet, chat about liking her, kiss her at the end, and tell her you'd like to see her again. Either you ask her and become boyfriend/girlfriend, or you go on dates a few times until it's kinda taken for granted.

Reply 2

hitmanuk2k

Just ask if you 2 are exclusive to each other now.

Reply 3

Anonymous #1

Ok well,

So far ive been a bit subtle with her. Just like 'i'll pop round yours or we can go cinema' kinda thing.
And somehow its elevated to this quite quickly.

You think i should go the whole haul - take her to a nice restaurant, get her sum kind of pressie an tell her?
Otherwise it might seem a bit cheap, but in the case of what i just said, it might seem waaaaaaaaaay over the top :confused:

Reply 4

Anonymous #2

If your too scared to ask her out or even know where you stand are you ready for it? seems you need to be bit more comfortable around each other

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

Yeah probly right there actually.

Thx will bear that in mind.

Reply 6

hitmanuk2k

Get a friend to call her your girlfriend while she is around... works a treat.

Reply 7

pumpkin7

me and my boyfriend never asked each other out.. as in no one said 'will you go out with me?'..
we have made our anniversary the day when we told each other we liked each other.
i guess we didn't need to ask.. we both new the situation, and enjoyed spending time with each other, so there was no point :smile:

Reply 8

Anonymous #3

im kindaaa having the same kind of trouble....a mate told me he liked me..i said i felt the same, but now we dont know where to take it from here, and i havent spoken to him in like...*thinks* 2 weeks more or less....so i have no idea what's happening now, and its horrible, because i stil like him, but i kinda get the feeling he doesnt like me anymore....it sucksss