Confused/ Sexuality

Basically I am currently single (uni student, female.) I've only met him a handful of times, but I'm really drawn to a close friend of a close friend, he's seems so lovely and he's pretty easy on the eye too. He strikes me as someone who'd be a great boyfriend. However, one of my female friends is gay and has recently broke up with her girlfriend. She know I'm bi-curious and I can't quite work out if she's been flirting with me a bit, she keeps asking me lots about myself and about if I've pulled when I've been out (men) and stuff and keeps complimenting me lots. I really like her- she's a great person and very beautiful, but now her behaviour's put the idea in my head, I'm wondering if she sees me as more than a mate and if it's something I'd pursue?? I wouldn't wanna screw up our friendship plus I'm not sure if I'd be ready for a relationship with a girl, even though (seeing as I've never really had a long,long-term rel with either sex) I'm attracted to girls and have "fooled around" with them in the past. Plus I like aforementioned guy. And guys in general. I'm so confused.

Sorry for the super long post!

Reply 1

Jonatan

To me it sounds more as if you are confused about who you would rather be with than your sexuality. Maybe I'm wrong but you sound prety sure that you are bi whereas you seem to have a hard time figuring out if you would want a relationship and in case with who. Also, as a bit of a warning, there is a significant number of rather homophobic people who frequently post on this forum. Don't worry about them. Figure out what you want, noone can tell you who you love and not. I'd say try to give it some time and see what happens ( not easy always I know). You probably don't want to rush these things so take your time.

Reply 2

championhopper

i'd say don't rush anything and get to know both of them better before deciding anything

Reply 3

championhopper

alternatively you could do that thing where you toss a coin and if you don't like the answer you know it should be the other, but like i said there's no hurry

Reply 4

Anonymous #1

Thanks for your reply Jonatan, it made a lot of sense to me, think that's probably the best course of action..just wait and see who I'm more drawn too naturally..arrgh!! x

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

Thanks for your reply Jonatan, it made a lot of sense to me, think that's probably the best course of action..just wait and see who I'm more drawn to naturally..arrgh!! x