Spots

Do girls overlook spots because they realise that they are not a permanent feature of a bloke and therefore not as if he has an inverted nose or something like that!

Reply 1

me12345

if it's just a few then yeh, but if it's loads then it might be slightly offputting

Reply 2

bedbug

:dito: I don't mind a few, it's to be expected, but if it's loads it is a bit of a turn off.

Reply 3

dani_88

Most guys tend to grow out of it so if they had spots i wouldnt be too put off.

Reply 4

Freckles

Why is this question directed at girls? I mean, do you find spots off putting on a girl? It works both ways, you know :rolleyes:

Reply 5

dancingqueen

No not really. One of my exes had really bad acne and I can't say it bothered me that much, although he did look so much better after he was put on roaccutane.

Reply 6

latentcorpse

i know it works both ways but i am not half and half u see so im only interested in 1 set of opinions because i know my opinions of spots on girls and amen't interested in what other guys want as i amen't them

Reply 7

dappleddawndrawndauphin

squirly

:dito: I don't mind a few, it's to be expected, but if it's loads it is a bit of a turn off.

Thirding that.

Reply 8

frappuccino

perdition

Thirding that.

....ditto....

Reply 9

hugatree

I don't mind much. I've had them since I was like, 10 and only just stopped getting them so much but I have a pretty scarred face now. :redface:

If the guy's attractive in general though I don't see the problem, they'll go away anyway.

Reply 10

teh_samby

My boyfriend used to have pretty bad spots, he's cleared up a lot now, unless I'm blinded by love :p:

I liked him too much to really care.

Reply 11

Anonymous #1

so personality is more important?

Reply 12

hugatree

Anonymous

so personality is more important?

Personality and spots have nothing to do with one another. I said if the guy is handsome without spots, he is also handsome WITH spots, so it doesn't matter imo.

Reply 13

Profesh

God, I do so loathe my acne.

Reply 14

dappleddawndrawndauphin

Anonymous

so personality is more important?

Personality is *much* more important - when I'm really attracted to a guy's personality, I end up finding everything about him attractive (or at least tolerable :wink:

), even things I would find very unattractive normally

Reply 15

shinytoy

i dont like acne. on men or women. sorry. all that personality and stuff, yea, but i wouldnt date them.appearcance is part of fancying someone

Reply 16

Profesh

shinytoy

i dont like acne. on men or women. sorry. all that personality and stuff, yea, but i wouldnt date them.appearcance is part of fancying someone

That my girlfriend purports not to mind seems of precious little consequence; those pitifully infrequent occasions whereby the infestation has been seen to subside for days, even weeks, on end being notable for an exponential improvement in overall confidence on my part.