My Friend is putting me down

how can I tell her I no longer want to hang around with her-she's always saying horrible stuff and never says anything nice about me or any of my other mates. We recently found out about her sexuality(she's a lesbian) and when we talk about boys(i always do) she gives us a funny look and tells us to shut up! Im sick to death of her but how can i tell her i dont want to be her friend? She is a really feisty and rude-ad says a lotta stuff that makes me cry(im not the only one)...HELP!

Reply 1

Scipio

You don't like her. Your other friends (I assume) don't like her. Tell her to **** off.

Reply 2

Princess Ella

yeah-everyone hates her-but like i said-she's really quick-thinking and will bite your back-with my secrets

Reply 3

Elements

Hey there's a similar problem in a thread in this forum that's 2 below this one so maybe they can pool information.

Regarding your problem, try to make it clear that if anyone else treated you like that, they wouldn't be your friend, therefore you really don't expect it from her. You support the fact that she has the courage to stand up for herself and come out and some of that courage, which she has exuberated, has rubbed off on you to tell her that you don't want to be friends. Just try to make it so that she can't use the saying that you only don't like her because of her sexuality because that's not true. If your secrets went public you could deny them and just say that she's doing this because she's always upsetting ppl and that you and her have seen that you're both going in 2 too different directions (on the subject of your ex-friendship)- this is quite nice and civil to say, is truthful and points out the truth.

If you ever want to talk any more about this, feel free to pm me; we can support each other, or try. :smile: