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Split condom - help please

last night, well a condom split. I have been going out with my girlfriend for a year now and I really love her so the problem is not having a baby its just the timing. ie I dont want a kid (neither does she) until at least after uni. (if we are still together etc)

So I just want some advise about what to do.

She cleaned herself out with some paper towel or something (without telling me because I can imagine that being painful and not good for you) and did the "victorian shower trick". <--- Ill leave that to the imagination.

She got an awful lot out on the paper towel but she will not have got it all out.

We are considering the morning after pill but with the price being almost £25 its a bit extreme.

Advise would be WELL appreciated.

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Reply 1
well of course go for the pill, dont risk it
think how much a baby will cost you, it would be 25quid well spent
Reply 3
Thats what I said. :P and Think
Reply 4
Claim the money back off the condom company for giving you a faulty one...Lol.
Reply 5
You can get the morning after pill free from the doctor, the family planning clinic and some pharmacies on a special scheme.
Ring NHS direct, tell them where you are and ask where is open on a Saturday morning and get there ASAP. Alternatively, buy it (she will have to buy it herself, you can't get it for her - though of course they don't mind who is paying!)
Reply 6
lol i think you definitely need to go for the pill
You will definitely need to get the morning after pill, those sorts of things don't actually work!!!! It only takes one tiny tiny little sperm to not have been washed out and there you go, a baby.
Go get the Pill! The sooner you get it, the more effective it is.
Definately get the morning after pill! Am i the only one that doesnt know what the victorian shower trick is? :confused:
Reply 9
Anonymous
last night, well a condom split. I have been going out with my girlfriend for a year now and I really love her so the problem is not having a baby its just the timing. ie I dont want a kid (neither does she) until at least after uni. (if we are still together etc)

So I just want some advise about what to do.

She cleaned herself out with some paper towel or something (without telling me because I can imagine that being painful and not good for you) and did the "victorian shower trick". <--- Ill leave that to the imagination.

She got an awful lot out on the paper towel but she will not have got it all out.

We are considering the morning after pill but with the price being almost £25 its a bit extreme.

Advise would be WELL appreciated.


And you think you can raise a child for less than £25?
Reply 10
25 pound!! come on its hardly 180,000 which is how much research has showed it cost to bring a child up
Reply 11
Don't risk it, get the pill!
Anonymous
last night, well a condom split. I have been going out with my girlfriend for a year now and I really love her so the problem is not having a baby its just the timing. ie I dont want a kid (neither does she) until at least after uni. (if we are still together etc)

So I just want some advise about what to do.

She cleaned herself out with some paper towel or something (without telling me because I can imagine that being painful and not good for you) and did the "victorian shower trick". <--- Ill leave that to the imagination.

She got an awful lot out on the paper towel but she will not have got it all out.

We are considering the morning after pill but with the price being almost £25 its a bit extreme.

Advise would be WELL appreciated.



Morning after pill or baby? Get the pill. Its free from the doctors or a sex clinic.
Reply 13
just get the pill. it will be £25 well spent.
Reply 14
blissy
You can get the morning after pill free from the doctor, the family planning clinic and some pharmacies on a special scheme.
Ring NHS direct, tell them where you are and ask where is open on a Saturday morning and get there ASAP. Alternatively, buy it (she will have to buy it herself, you can't get it for her - though of course they don't mind who is paying!)


When I was with my ex, he got the morning after pill for me. He rang me up whilst he was there to ask me the questions (when was your last period, etc) so from my experience, it is possible to get someone else to get it for you. Saying that, this was about 2 or 3 years ago
Reply 15
Pink Sparkles
Am i the only one that doesnt know what the victorian shower trick is? :confused:


Nope I don't either

Go for the pill, seriously, it's not a good thing if neither of you want the baby
Reply 16
The Pill! The Pill!
Anonymous
last night, well a condom split. I have been going out with my girlfriend for a year now and I really love her so the problem is not having a baby its just the timing. ie I dont want a kid (neither does she) until at least after uni. (if we are still together etc)

So I just want some advise about what to do.

She cleaned herself out with some paper towel or something (without telling me because I can imagine that being painful and not good for you) and did the "victorian shower trick". <--- Ill leave that to the imagination.

She got an awful lot out on the paper towel but she will not have got it all out.

We are considering the morning after pill but with the price being almost £25 its a bit extreme.

Advise would be WELL appreciated.



All because of the cost? You sound so very ****ing stupid. I can't believe you say this. Do yourself a favour now....hit that head of yours against a hard brick wall 100 times, then lets hope you get some common ****ing sense - you're pathetic.
Anonymous
last night, well a condom split. I have been going out with my girlfriend for a year now and I really love her so the problem is not having a baby its just the timing. ie I dont want a kid (neither does she) until at least after uni. (if we are still together etc)

So I just want some advise about what to do.

She cleaned herself out with some paper towel or something (without telling me because I can imagine that being painful and not good for you) and did the "victorian shower trick". <--- Ill leave that to the imagination.

She got an awful lot out on the paper towel but she will not have got it all out.

We are considering the morning after pill but with the price being almost £25 its a bit extreme.

Advise would be WELL appreciated.


go for the morning after pill 25 quid will be less expensive than a baby and if you go down to your local family planning clinic i think its less expensive. Don't believe that that'll help to not conceive by scrubbing herself out afterwards....it only takes one to get her pregnant. Don't chance it
Reply 19
go to boots its free if you under 18, or get it from a clinic or doctor for free.