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do i actually fancy him?

i have this crush on my teacher, hes 40 something..hes all i think about...i like a lot of things about him....i really do like him but i cant actually imagine kissing him,
its left me wondering whether i actually fancy him or whether im just obsessed?
(btw i have no intention of making a move on him incase you start mentioning that its against the law for a teacher/pupil relationhship - i know this! lol)

Reply 1

ladygrey

If you can't imagine kissing him (mind you, you shouldn't!)... then its probably just admiration... not even necessarily obsession

Reply 2

Sexy Plexi

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Anonymous

i have this crush on my teacher, hes 40 something..hes all i think about...i like a lot of things about him....i really do like him but i cant actually imagine kissing him,
its left me wondering whether i actually fancy him or whether im just obsessed?
(btw i have no intention of making a move on him incase you start mentioning that its against the law for a teacher/pupil relationhship - i know this! lol)

Infatuation? Maybe you just admire him/like his personality etc and have become a little bit confused about your feelings towards him.

If you fancied him you'd want to kiss him and then some. The very fact that you're questioning it shows you don't.

Reply 3

Princess Ella

well-most girls have crushes on teachers-im not one of them though-still it'll pass-hopefully-good luck

Reply 4

Sezkin

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Anonymous

i have this crush on my teacher, hes 40 something..hes all i think about...i like a lot of things about him....i really do like him but i cant actually imagine kissing him,
its left me wondering whether i actually fancy him or whether im just obsessed?
(btw i have no intention of making a move on him incase you start mentioning that its against the law for a teacher/pupil relationhship - i know this! lol)

I may be totally random...but I'm sure I know you... just heard that story from one of my friends recently... :rolleyes:

Sezkin

Reply 5

Anonymous #1

OP

yeah me too, im sure i told a friend a story lyk that recently...a great friend that is... :biggrin:

Reply 6

Anonymous #1

OP

johnnysgirl

Infatuation? Maybe you just admire him/like his personality etc and have become a little bit confused about your feelings towards him.

If you fancied him you'd want to kiss him and then some. The very fact that you're questioning it shows you don't.

if the very fact im questioning it shows i dont fancy him...why i am like this lol i must be confused about my feelings towards him, i find it difficult to look him in the eye, i blush like crazy and im sure he knows i 'like' him but doesnt say anything about it....

Reply 7

Anonymous #1

OP

im just so unsure about what to do, i dont understand why i dont want to kiss him yet im sure i fancy him?

Reply 8

Sezkin

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He's not attractive at all in personality or look, do not think about him....please...

There are reasons why and I'm sure people would agree if they saw him:

1) He looks like a parrot.

2) He's a grumpy old man.

3) He never smiles at all and has a cold personality...which is a pity.

4) His shoes are too shiny that they hurt my eyes.

5) He give out too many homework.

I mean..come on!! there's loadsa fit lads our age in 6th form :p:

Their way better than an old man and are more avaliable :wink:

.

Sezkin

Reply 9

Anonymous #1

OP

he never gave me any hmk when he taught me!
he has a cold personality? he was nice and funny to me when i spoke to him on thursday although he was a bit sarcastic...it was my fault though - i was stating the obvious...
he was smiling loads and loads!! i was over the moon all day! i thought he was fit when i got up close to him! altho 99.9% of ppl would strongly disagree....

Reply 10

Profesh

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Anonymous

i have this crush on my teacher, hes 40 something..hes all i think about...i like a lot of things about him....i really do like him but i cant actually imagine kissing him,
its left me wondering whether i actually fancy him or whether im just obsessed?
(btw i have no intention of making a move on him incase you start mentioning that its against the law for a teacher/pupil relationhship - i know this! lol)

Problem solved, then.

Reply 11

Anonymous #1

OP

you wouldnt believe how nice he was BUT i knew what he was doing in a way..he was finding out if i liked him cos he was right next to me and i looked him in the eyes, and his face was like 'lets see right now whether she likes me or not' he asked me a question, and i was just pink in the cheeks, smiling faintly and answered his question, and the look on his face was like ' she does fancy me!'