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Denial?

Basically i really like a girl, but its usually a case of when im talking to her via messenger or im with her in person, i think shes great.

Then when im away from her, she slips to the back of my mind and i start to look at other girls. I still think about her when im away from her, but hardly as much and i feel differently about it. Like i think sometimes i'm maybe using her because nobody else seems interested, which makes me a bit sad really.

Things with her are potentially getting serious. Is there any point getting into a relationship if my feelings are changing like that?
Its crossed my mind that i do really like her, im just in denial for some reason. Any advice/ideas appreciated.

Reply 1

Myself.

No matter how much I like someone, I'm always looking at other guys :smile:

"out of sight, out of mind"?

Oh well.

Reply 2

andy_c

7

If you like her, or think you do, then go for it and see how it feels. If, when you get closer to her, your feelings go away or you change your mind just make sure that you don't lead her on. You might as well try for nothing.

Reply 3

musicdreamer

1

I was kinda like that I started seeing my girlfriend and wasn't sure if I wanted a relationship but now everything is amazing. So go for it...what do u have to lose?

Reply 4

Sezkin

11

Anonymous

Basically i really like a girl, but its usually a case of when im talking to her via messenger or im with her in person, i think shes great.

Then when im away from her, she slips to the back of my mind and i start to look at other girls. I still think about her when im away from her, but hardly as much and i feel differently about it. Like i think sometimes i'm maybe using her because nobody else seems interested, which makes me a bit sad really.

Things with her are potentially getting serious. Is there any point getting into a relationship if my feelings are changing like that?
Its crossed my mind that i do really like her, im just in denial for some reason. Any advice/ideas appreciated.

Well why don't you tell her how you feel, basically just go for it! :cool:

Maybe when your actually in a relationship, you'll start thinking about her more. However, I think it's natural that you look at other girls when you like someone already. Lads are biologically programmed that way.

I remember one of my friends telling me that whenever she goes outwith her long-term boyfriend, her boyfriend always tend to look at other girls as well as her, and she tends to get jealous and think other girls are better; it's like she expects him to look at her all the time. BUT I think lads can't help it, and if I had a boyfriend who I really trust, I wouldn't mind if he looks at other girls... I would just go with the flow :p:

Just don't take it seriously about looking at other girls when you like someone. I say ask her out and talk to her more. Now go and get her :biggrin:

...

Sezkin

Reply 5

chaoringmeister

Look youre a guy so its natural for you to be that way. (looking at other girls)

Reply 6

El Scotto

15

Anonymous

Basically i really like a girl, but its usually a case of when im talking to her via messenger or im with her in person, i think shes great.

Then when im away from her, she slips to the back of my mind and i start to look at other girls. I still think about her when im away from her, but hardly as much and i feel differently about it. Like i think sometimes i'm maybe using her because nobody else seems interested, which makes me a bit sad really.

Things with her are potentially getting serious. Is there any point getting into a relationship if my feelings are changing like that?
Its crossed my mind that i do really like her, im just in denial for some reason. Any advice/ideas appreciated.

its called keeping your options open. nothing wrong with that.

Reply 7

bob_54321

the op didnt actually say that they were a guy . . .

Reply 8

Tarts_n_Vicars

13

Nowt wrong with looking but if it gets to the point where you would actually want to pursue something with another girl rather than just "looking" you know the one you're into isn't the one for you.

Denial?

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