feeling guilty toward guys

I was just wondering, is it wrong not to call a guy back if he calls u after u gave him ur number at a club... I always end up giving out my number when im drunk and in the morning I'm just not in the mood/attracted to these men!

I feel reallllllly bad.. but isn't it better than leading them on by returning their calls? :confused:

Reply 1

warranty-ideal

S'all part of the game....

Reply 2

Sezkin

I think you should tell them directly that your not interested. It's kinda stupid ignoring the calls, they might think that your busy or havn't heard the call...or whatever reasons.

You are in a way leading them on; you acted interested in them and gave your number out, so obviously they would think your still interested unless you tell them that your not and that it was just a drunken moment. If you don't return the call, they'll probably just wonder why a girl gave her number out or whether it was the wrong number...

Thats just what i think anyway, other people might have better views.

:suith:

Sezkin

Reply 3

frappuccino

Hmm...personally I have no problem with talking to random guys in a club. It just seems really mean if they ask for your number and you say "no" which is why you can either make up some excuse, give them a wrong number or just give them your number. It's no harm done if you give them your number and ignore their calls tbh. You're not going to see them again and most of them give up after 2-3 calls.