All I wanna do is have sex!

I'm 18 going on 19, I'm also a virgin. I go to a girl sixth form college and haven't really mixed in with any guys since Juniors...
For a long time I have just wanted sex and I'm all horny all the time! It is so frustrating and annoying, I don't know what to do :frown:

Reply 1

Spunky

14

Well, she goes to an all girls sixth form college :wink:

.

Have you looked at other ways of meeting guys, outside of schooling :smile:

? And don't worry, all teenagers go through the rampant horny rabbit phase :p:

!

Reply 2

Zerforax

21

Just go to a club... cant be hard :p:

or ask some lonely guys on TSR :biggrin:

Reply 3

sjuthani

6

I vaguely understand what you're going through, having been to an all-boys school since the age of 12. The key is to make the extra effort to meet people outside, join clubs, societies, anywhere you can meet people your own age. (I'm assuming that you'd rather not have sex whilst pretending to be a prostitute or being extra slutty or whatever).

Reply 4

Anonymous #1

OP

I don't want to be a Slut, but in a way i also want to :redface:

I don't really understand it myself really...

Reply 5

sjuthani

6

Anonymous

I don't want to be a Slut, but in a way i also want to :redface:

I don't really understand it myself really...

I know exactly what you're talking about. Go out there, find people you like, have a good time, and if you think the time is right, then do it! :wink:

Reply 6

Anonymous #2

I'm male and have the same problem.... and I'm spectacularly bad with the opposite sex. I feel that because you're a girl, it will not much much of an issue for you to get a bloke... much easier than it will for me to get a girl anyhow.

The next opportunity you have, get drunk with a bloke in the room and act a little too friendly.

Reply 7

L i b

19

If all else fails, I hear male prostitutes these days don't just service sailors...

Reply 8

Mrs_F

15

Anonymous

I don't want to be a Slut, but in a way i also want to :redface:

I don't really understand it myself really...

Ah you don't want to get yourself known as a slut. Yes, it might be cool now, but when you are older and wanting to find a decent man to marry then you will still be known as a slut!

Bare that in mind.

As for being horny all of the time, just get yourself a Rampant Rabbit from Ann Summers!

Reply 9

President_Ben

15

Sex, while nice, is not going to change your life from nothing to something.

Grass is always greener on the other side, when you aren't getting it - you get a craving. When you are, you probably take it for granted (and also realise, there is much more to life and fun than sex).

Reply 10

Angelil

19

^^^ exactly.
to the OP; just hang in there and one day you will find a boyfriend. Until then, buy a dildo.

Reply 11

Anonymous #3

i know what u mean, im a girl and im gagging for it!not had some for a while, really need a bit!

Reply 12

Princess Ella

chill lil lady-wait for the right guy to come along

Reply 13

enigma2506

I just cant get enuff of that wonderful m...... anyway, just reading this thread has caused me to be really 'frustrated'.... ive been trying to forget about it but I cant, I need it now....NOW I SAY.....NOW.

Reply 14

enigma2506

The thought just crossed my mind how many guys (or girls) are thinking why the hell cant I meet someone whos allways gagging for 'it' ............... threads like this prove they exist, but obviously not anywhere near me.

sorry I'll stop being a sad desperate old perve now.

Reply 15

Monkey_Maiden

11

enigma2506

The thought just crossed my mind how many guys (or girls) are thinking why the hell cant I meet someone whos allways gagging for 'it' ............... threads like this prove they exist, but obviously not anywhere near me.

sorry I'll stop being a sad desperate old perve now.

Aww poor you :frown:

People think I'm a bit of a nympho and from my experience most guys just run off :frown:

Reply 16

Lauren Hart

3

LOL, I was always the same, I just wanted to do it, know what it was like, etc etc. Im really glad I waited because its so fantastic between my boyfriend and I. Im still always up for it, lol, which is difficult because we're at different unis.

Till you find the right guy for the job, just try to cope with a vibrator/dildo. its not easy, but dont give in to the pressure to have just anyone, i nearly did, and it would have been such a waste!

Reply 17

Hanski

1

Monkey_Maiden

Aww poor you :frown:

People think I'm a bit of a nympho and from my experience most guys just run off :frown:

I know what you mean, it's as if they expect girls to not have as higher sex drive... even though they must do if they want it all the time!

I have a boyfriend and I still have this problem on occasions... (as my fella is in the navy!)

Reply 18

pendragon

13

Get a vibrator, satisfy yourself, and dont throw yourself at the first guy you meet at uni. Be picky and wait.

Reply 19

SamTheMan

17

Monkey_Maiden

Aww poor you :frown:

People think I'm a bit of a nympho and from my experience most guys just run off :frown:

Well if you act like a nympho as soon as you meet them, that can happen. Despite all these comments about casual sex being all common and everyone's at it, there's always more to it than that. Sure if you meet a guy whose only preoccupation in life is to have sex or probably to lose his virginity, then you'll be successful but do you want to sleep with a guy who would sleep with anything anyway?

Most guys, like girls, want to feel a bit special about being chosen by the girl. If the girl seems like she's too much of a nympho, it sometimes seems like she's a bit too desperate and would sleep with anyone.

I've had girls (usually not very attractive) come up to me at parties or in clubs and after a bit of chatting, start alluding to taking them home. It really isn't appealing. Sure, some friends who would shag anything, don't quite understand...

All I wanna do is have sex!

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