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Am I going to get hurt?

I dont know what to do.

About 2 weeks ago my boyfriend ran off with a skank whore off the internet. This is 2 weeks after we moved in together. I was understandably heartbroken, however all the time he was with her, he was still telling me he loves me and ****.

Now he split up with her what should I do?

I love him so much. But Im just being stupid thinking we could ever have a relationship again right?
Reply 1
Forget him, he did it once and he could do it again. Find someone who will REALLY love you and make you happy :smile:
Reply 2
its not stupid, but its not clever either.
this guy has hurt you. a lot. it doesnt seem that he has much respect for other peoples feelings, as he ran off with another woman just after moving in with you and then carried on telling you he loved you whilst with her! that's unfair on both of you.

you cannot help that you love him, but he is not worth that love. you have to try your best to rise above this. and allow yourself to be mad at him!

he does not deserve to have a relationship with you, or any woman for that matter.
Sounds Like
A big Knob with No knob.
Honey, he screwed you over bad. Keep away from him. No-one does something likes that if they really love someone else.

I know its difficult to let go of someone you love, but for your sake you need to.
Reply 5
noooooo!!!

how can you consider letting him crawl back to you - get some self respect girl you deserve batter!

1)he left you after two weeks of moving in together
2)for some random girl
3)he met her on the internet
4)it didnt work out and he feels lonely/a failure.

yes he says made a mistake

but YOU will make a mistake taking him back. he cant have thought much of you to do that. let him go. theres other guys. wish him luck finding a second hand mail order bride on ebay.
Reply 6
oh my.. babe i really hope your ok. Of course theres still a chance that you two can get back together. but it will only work if you both talk things through, and if you do get back together, you cant keep throwing it back in his face, you can only get back together if you are truly going to 'forgive and forget' or itll cause so many arguements and heart ache.
You both obviously have strong feelings for eachother, otherwise you wouldnt have moved in with eachother. mayb he got scared because he realised that hes settling down now, commitement may have scared him.
dont throw yourself at him though, show him your strong, and believe in yourself. you are worth more than that! If you think he may do this again, then dont risk it, coz itl hurt so much.
ive been in similar situations and feel like ive got so much to type lol.
Wishing you the best of luck, and remember, whatever decision you make, is best for that time. Maybe you need some time alone, just to get your head around things.
PM me if you wana chat,
Dont take him back! Ever!

If he can do it once he can do it again!

Your better off without him, find someone whos gonna treat you the way you deserve to be treated!
Reply 8
Anonymous
I dont know what to do.

About 2 weeks ago my boyfriend ran off with a skank whore off the internet. This is 2 weeks after we moved in together. I was understandably heartbroken, however all the time he was with her, he was still telling me he loves me and ****.

Now he split up with her what should I do?

I love him so much. But Im just being stupid thinking we could ever have a relationship again right?


Ouch. Bitter!

I think you'd be stupid to go back to him. He betrayed you, hurt you, and pretty much stamped over you. Also, telling you heloved you whilst with her tells me that he's a liar and a cheat, and that you're better off without him.

He's done so much wrong in that situation that I just can't believe you're even considering going back to him.
Reply 9
Haha. I know Im bitter.

But she is. Who puts naked photos on myspace?
Reply 10
Anonymous
Haha. I know Im bitter.

But she is. Who puts naked photos on myspace?

Well Skank whore is a bit of a crude term... lets just say she's desperate if she needs to post naked pics on the net.
Reply 11
He's cheated, lied and screwed you over. Don't go back to him. You might love him, but you'll most likely regret getting back with him - especially if he did something like this again.

Definitely, definitely stay away from him.

You'll get over him and find someone a million times better who won't act like that.
Reply 12
don't go back to him... you deserve someone who will really treat you well, and not run off with some tart who posts naked photos on myspace.
shinytoy
noooooo!!!

how can you consider letting him crawl back to you - get some self respect girl you deserve batter!

1)he left you after two weeks of moving in together
2)for some random girl
3)he met her on the internet
4)it didnt work out and he feels lonely/a failure.

yes he says made a mistake

but YOU will make a mistake taking him back. he cant have thought much of you to do that. let him go. theres other guys. wish him luck finding a second hand mail order bride on ebay.


:ditto:
Reply 14
I agree with everyone else... if he's strayed once, he'll do it again!
Gasp_Alive
A big Knob with No knob.

QUOTE Bridget Jones!! :biggrin:

.. and of course how relevant, we can so learn from good ol' Bridge in this situation (hang on a minute... are you Bridget Jones?)

Kick that stupid Hugh Grant to the kurb, just because he ran off with an "american stick insect" and she dumped him when "she realised [he] was still in love with you" (pure b*llshit, he was dumped. end of.)

I say do like Bridget..... "choose Vodka."

(and eventually find your Colin Firth)



P.S. I'm not advocating a life of alcoholism for you