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Yes that would be very premature. Its different for everyone but i am guessing 15-20 mins is usual.
jonnies help a lot.

First time i did it with a jonny i couldn't cum no matter how hard and fast i went. it kills the sensitivity and you have to get used to them.
Reply 3
average guy in the Uk lasts 5 minutes apparently. of penetration, not start to finish.
It really depends. Can be anything from a minute or two bareback to an hour or more!
Reply 5
Anonymous
Hi, quick question that is really concerning me. (18 year old male virgin)

Gotta see the irony in that :p: - soz

Now to be more helpful - or at least try :smile:

Like people have mentioned here - condoms - they take a lot of the sensitivity away. So that would help I guess.

Also try to practise controlling yourself - in general i'd say that the speed of sex is lower than that of mastabation - so try slowing it down a bit. Also relax your breathing - slow, deep breaths - i know your not giving birth but this is good even when you have no probs :wink:

The best thing to do as well is concentrate on your body - how do you feel when your close to climax - don't do the general 'Think of something else' technique.

Things to bare in mind:

Typically every man at some point of his life suffers from this

and

Don't worry about it too much or it will make it worse
Reply 6
yeah, i can go for hours but can make myself cum quickly from having a **** - for example, the situation of need to rush out the house but serious morning glory, only one way to get rid ! anyway, try durex performa condoms, personally they made my knob go numb but i'm not over sensitive/dont have a problem so it could help in your case ! and dont be embarassed about buying them ... my dad bought me mine ! WORST ! best way is not to worry mate.
I find the notion of a performa quite worrying. If it went numb, I feel I'd lose the hardness since there was no stimulation.

Sex doesn't provide as much outright physical stimulation as bashing one out, I reckon. It's harder, in fact, near impossible - for human bodies to move at the speed of a hand.

The pleasure of sex mostly isn't physical. It's very much in the mind.
Reply 8
It is the most bizarre feeling but remains erect. What i meant was, if your overly sensitive it might reduce your sensitivity to normality. whereas im not so my response is different. try one out, for a "posh ****". you are also right about physical stimulation, the vagina is also usually highly lubricated, unlike your hand (unless you lubricate when you masturbate)
Reply 9
Masturbating and having sex are completely different sensations mate, only thing they have in common is the end result, don't worry about it.
Reply 10
:dito:
Reply 11
what's the worst that's going to happen?

you cum after 20 seconds feel a bit embarased, girl has a little giggle, you wait for a little bit, do it all again.
Reply 12
and you can always take one for the team, just because you've cum early doesnt mean you can't get a bit of oral on the go and rectify the situation,
Reply 13
ewwww, thats yucky.

Anyway, the only way you can properly replicate the feel of a vagina is the fleshlight mate, if I were you I'd buy one ASAP.

www.fleshlight.com
Reply 14
Alias667
just because you've cum early doesnt mean you can't get a bit of oral on the go
Yum.
Reply 15
take one for the team. come on guys, it has to be done !
Reply 16
I was worried about that before I had sex but for some reason it's a lot easier to control and last as long as you want during sex.
Reply 17
Anonymous
Hi, quick question that is really concerning me. (18 year old male virgin)

When masturbating, you can ejaculate in about 30 seconds. When having sex, surely you will be more turned on, so more lieky to ejaculate even quicker? Wont this be premature? How long should it be before you do ejaculate?

Thanks :smile:

depends. if you've masterbated a few minutes before sex, it takes longer. If you haven't for a few days, it'll be pretty quick.
Reply 18
As mentioned before the feeling of masturbation and sex is different and in most cases you cum loads quicker from masturbation than sex, so how long you take to cum from playing with yourself isn't really an indication of how long you will last, although I've heard the first time you cum quicker (probably coz of the excitement and new sensations?) but after that you should be fine.