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Do you go for looks or personality?

Anonymous #1

I go for both.

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Reply 1

Crimson Black

Yet I have a feeling this thread will die a quick death.

Why the anon FOR THIS???

Reply 2

Bob123

i go for searching - this has been asked like 1000 times

Reply 3

TommyD

I would say personality needs to be considered equally (an emphasis on making sure you do this) cos so many people tend to overlook whether a decent conversation with their partner can be achieved or not until its too late.

Reply 4

G4ry

I'm going to say it really depends on the situation. If one is in a club and sees a girl it's going to be a pure physical attraction. I can't be interested in a girl unless there is that physical attraction; obviously personality is something important to me and what would keep us together in the long term. I've had a time when i had a conflict between personality and looks and i did choose personality over looks.

Where's the poll?

Personality is much more important

Reply 7

GeorgieK

wow this thread hasn't been made like 1000 times before.

its called search.

use it.

Reply 8

Monkey_Maiden

GeorgieK

wow this thread hasn't been made like 1000 times before.

its called search.

use it.

Hehe yeah I musy have seen this thread done to death!
I would choose personality overall but you do need attraction to start off with so I kinda don't agree with people who just say personality and thats it.

Reply 9

Yabasic

I go for both. I wouldn't want a really fit bird but who is shy and never says anything. So both is important.

Reply 10

Schmokie Dragon

emotional, intellectual and physcial attraction are all important because a relationship cannot be healthy in the absence of any of them

Reply 11

Princess Ella

both-def-but id rather go for personality-looks can be deceiving-im one of the lucky ones-i have both!!

Reply 12

Sezkin

Anonymous

I go for both.

This thread has been done many times before, anyway if I had to pick between the two, I would personally go for personality, however if I was to have a potential boyfriend, I would want to be attracted to the person in both looks and personality. :redface:

If I'm not attracted to the person and the person has a great personality, he/she would be a good friend. :biggrin:

Sooo it depends...

:suith:

Sezkin

Reply 13

silverbolt

people who say they only go for personality are lying.
everyone goes for looks at least at first

Reply 14

ladygrey

everyone who said that this has been done before. But yeah... isn't it the whole package?

Reply 15

CassieCoo

75%personality and the rest on looks for me

Reply 16

sebbie

I would go out with someone who was all looks and no personality for a brief spell, i would never go out wiht someone who was no looks and all personality....

however i would say that personality is more important, but it HAS to have some looks with it.....