agreed. Its not something you can sit and think "hmmm, there are all these good things, it might be love". It either is or it isnt, and whether it is or not is entirely unrelated to how good the relationship is (ie, you can be in love with jerks). Don't ask us because we cannot search inside you. Only you can do that. But once you are in love, you just kinda know. You feel all warm and fuzzy when you are together, but its an emotion tinged with a destructive edge that sort of eats away at you. It can make you feel loney and sad, as well as warm and happy. In order to know if it is really love you might need to go through some really bad times. Then you will know if it is just the relationship you liked, or if it is the person as well.