No confidence

Anonymous #1

After being dumped.

How do I get it back?

Reply 1

Reue

Theres a million confidence threads already here, a good place to start might be, ohh, i donno.. read one of those?

Reply 2

joe_darwin

First things first. Reue, you need to get a new picture, cos that ones scaring me.

Second, the anon poster, get over it. You're not the only one thats been binned, sh*t happens and it'll happen again, theres nothing wrong with you, s/he just wasnt for you.

Reply 3

NileDelta

Talk to someone you trust?

Reply 4

Sexy Plexi

Never, ever rely on your partner to provide you with self-esteem. That's a terrible way to be!

You were not half a person with half a personality before you got with them were you?! You are a person in your own right, take pride in your appearence and be confident in your opinions, relish your individuality and what makes you tick. You are unique and special in your own right. You don't need someone to bolster your confidence; that needs to come from you!

On a superficial level (!) um, get your hairstyled differently..wear your cbest clothes..go out with your mates..in fact, just chill a bit and do what you enjoy doing for a few days to help you get over the breakup...hang out with the people you love!

Good luck
xXx

Reply 5

Monkey_Maiden

I know it sounds harsh but I agree with everyone else, it happens to everyone at some point. you just have to remember they didn't dump you for who you are , more likely because you're not right for them.
Keep occupied, see mates, treat yourself, hew haircut/clothes etc and try and stay positive :smile: