In January I arranged to move in with a couple of girls off my course and their friends, in total there is 8 of us. I was quite close to the girls off my course because I saw them every day and went out with the others on a regular basis. When we got the house I was really happy with my decision and was looking forward to moving in. I didn't know these people in first year, I only met them in second year. So I got on with them all but was never that close.
I finished uni almost two months ago now and haven't seen any of them for two months. We're getting the keys for our house this week and moving our stuff in. But I just don't feel like I want to move in with them any more. Well I do, but I feel like I've barely spoken to any of them in months and don't feel close to them any more!
I really wish I'd just arranged to live with the people I lived with this year, as in the last few months I've become really close to them.
Part of me can't wait to move into the new house but another part of me is really unsure and regretful as I don't feel close enough to the people I'm going to living with. Will that change once we're all back in uni and I hope the closeness goes back to how it was and we're just not really speaking much because it's summer. The thing is the other 7 people are all much closer because they've known each other since the beginning of first year, but I've only known them all since the beginning of second year.
What do you wish you'd been taught?