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Breast Size

I have small breasts (size 32A). It really gets me down that all my friends and the other girls at college are normal-sized. I used to be very skinny when I was going through puberty, so perhaps they just didn't grow much. I don't know. I'm 18, so they're probably not going to get any bigger. Is there anything I can do? It really gets me down when guys go on about how important good-sized boobs are - I feel very self-conscious because of this and feel as though guys don't look twice at me because of my chest. :frown:

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lot of men like smaller boobs because they arent too unruly., but if you arent happy, maybe look into an enlargement? But to be honest. big boobs are not that great! I have 36E's and they're a nightmare!
Reply 2
Its not that important to us boys, jst an extra factor to be honest. Smalller boobs r a turn on 2 me....
Reply 3
well lets be honest. your not gna want to go out with a guy whos just ito boobs anyway. most guys ive spoken to havent even thought about their boob preferences because decent guys dont think about it first. i have grown two cup sizes since iwas 17 so youd be suprised with growth spurts.dont worry though.its probably only you that notices the problem. aparently men are more into cute bums than boobs anyway!
Like people have said lots guys prefer small boobs and the guys who care about the size too much are probaly not that nice, personality matters more :smile:
Reply 5
I know this is easy to say, but be grateful for what you've got. I personally think smaller breasts look really elegant, and would farrr prefer them to larger ones. Mine used to be small and was way happier with them than I am now. They won't sag, and some of the best bras are in small sizes only. Nobody is 'normal' anyway, so look at the advantages.
Reply 6
Lauren Hart
lot of men like smaller boobs because they arent too unruly., but if you arent happy, maybe look into an enlargement? But to be honest. big boobs are not that great! I have 36E's and they're a nightmare!


I definitely don't want surgery! But thanks for the comments. :smile:
Mine got a bit bigger as i hit my 20s but I am still an A and I love them. Think of all the things you can do like run with out worrying, they dont get in the way and any bloke you meet will love them I have never haad any problems and I am always being told that I have great nipples so I wouldn't worry .............men like different things
Welll Boob sizes don't really matter its the person inside that counts.
Reply 9
As a rule of thumb, shape is far more important.
my advice is to ignore those guys. breast size is not important, in the grand scale of things, and who wants a guy who only wants them for whats inside their bra cups?
i am also a 32A and used to feel very self conscious about my smaller chest, but i have grown to love it. with bigger boobs, you look suffocated in rollneck tops, which i adore, and hey, who wants back ache?
personally, i think smaller boobs look better anyway.

and in the big picture, it makes no difference. the function of breasts is not to attract a mate, it is to feed your children if you so happen to have them. as size has no bearing on how well you perform in this certain task, then there is no problem.

of course i understand how you feel and it will take more than my words to encourage you to feel otherwise.
further express a part of you you are more comfortable with, such as your defined shoulders, or flat stomach, or whatever it so happens to be. make yourself feel good DESPITE how you feel about your breasts, and those feelings will soon be more positive.

feel free to PM me if you want someone to chat to about the asses that are young people and their views on our bodies :P

x
Reply 11
Size really isn't that important. Anything more than a handful is a waste!
Reply 12
I'm the same!

I used to be soooooooo self conscious about my little boobies, and I still am sometimes (especially when stood next to my friends who have been blessed with nice sized boobs!)

However, as I have gotten older, I have started to like my boobs more - plus my fiance absolutely loves them (for some reason!)

If a boy does not like you simply because you have small boobs then they are not worth it in the first place. You will find someone who loves you for you - and who even loves your little boobs! HONEST!
you're actually in the lucky minority of girls who are able to modify their looks much more than people with larger breasts.

I'm 36G or 38FF respectively, depending on who's making the bra, and not only am I condemned to a limited range of underwear, but also a limited range of stylish clothes, because they don't squeeze into much!

For now, instead of getting down about it: use what you've got. Use enhancers to create a perfect little cleavage if yuo're wearing V-necks; flaunt backless or front-slit tops... because you CAN. Enhance other aspects of your body: waist, long legs, elegant neck and shoulders... I wouldn't suggest surgery for anyone who hasn't been very unhappy with the way they look for years. There are so many options and revolving fashions out there these days: you'll always be able to make what you've got work for you and allow you to craft out a style all your own on your own body: as it stands, with smaller breasts, you're much more able to do this.

As some irritating moron told me when I was 14.... "More than a handful's a waste"


:smile:
Anonymous
I have small breasts (size 32A). It really gets me down that all my friends and the other girls at college are normal-sized. I used to be very skinny when I was going through puberty, so perhaps they just didn't grow much. I don't know. I'm 18, so they're probably not going to get any bigger. Is there anything I can do? It really gets me down when guys go on about how important good-sized boobs are - I feel very self-conscious because of this and feel as though guys don't look twice at me because of my chest. :frown:

I love small breasts. Big ones scare me, and they are doomed to sag. Little pert ones are so cute and sexy. :biggrin:
JaF
Size really isn't that important. Anything more than a handful is a waste!


ROFL!!!!
I swear I had posted before I read that.
oh dear.
I wouldn't worry. Guys who judge you on what size your breasts are, are not worth fighting for. It really doesn't matter, its what in you that counts.
You should be delighted with moderately sized breasts - they'll never sag and go all turkey neck when you're 40!

Plus, I have 36C/D's and sometimes the pain can be sooooo intense it's hard to bear...
Reply 18
I'd echo what several others have said already that breast size really isn't important, certainly would never put me off a girl on its own. If you are to talk purely about the physical aspect then proportion is more what looks good anyway.
Or from a slightly different point of view, isn't Keira Knightley an A cup or thereabouts? And it doesn't stop many blokes finding her attractive does it (me included)? :wink:
Reply 19
Anonymous
I have small breasts (size 32A). It really gets me down that all my friends and the other girls at college are normal-sized. I used to be very skinny when I was going through puberty, so perhaps they just didn't grow much. I don't know. I'm 18, so they're probably not going to get any bigger. Is there anything I can do? It really gets me down when guys go on about how important good-sized boobs are - I feel very self-conscious because of this and feel as though guys don't look twice at me because of my chest. :frown:


What height are you? Mine are 32 A and im 5ft 1 so they don't look too tiny.