Post-ejaculation thoughts

Some guys feel guilt or even worse, embarassment after having an orgasm.

Probably due to the refractory period, every man feels different after orgasming: you're no longer thinking about sex, you kind of switch off. But in my case, it can go as far as no longer finding the girl I had sex with attractive.

:eek:

How do other guys experience this?

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Reply 1

delighted_eyes

well i am a woman but i can definatly say that I hae found several of the men I have had sex with much less attractive after sex and/or orgasum

Reply 2

Anonymous #1

delighted_eyes

well i am a woman but i can definatly say that I hae found several of the men I have had sex with much less attractive after sex and/or orgasum

Well think how bad it can be for guys then as the male orgasm is like switching off completely...

Reply 3

delighted_eyes

What, almost like you don't have a brain at all?

Reply 4

Spiral Architect

I'm too busy falling asleep to think.

Reply 5

Barny

After ejaculating I always wonder why I'm bleeding, then I realise its because I'M MENSTRUATING!!

Reply 6

Anonymous #2

I'm gay and find that after I orgasm I feel totally digusted and depressed about what i just did / thought about. It's horrible.

Reply 7

Anonymous #3

I feel totally relaxed; all you guys who feel disturbed need to examine your sexuality (as in what you're attracted to specifically, not just gay/straight)

Reply 8

Anonymous #4

Mainly feel tired/ extremely relaxed, but sometimes I can be quite depressed.

Reply 9

Supersonic

Yeah tired?????Great way to combat insomnia...have sex or have a ****. Much better than sleeping pills.

Yes, Sleepy :P

I get an enormous feeling of self satisfaction, I can't stop smiling. I look in the mirror afterwards and think 'God I'm sexy'.

Reply 12

Schmokie Dragon

LOL, another girly perspective but I tend to get very clinical and cold, rushing about trying to do something useful. The man just goes flop and chills out. I don't think he gets any odd thoughts.

Reply 13

Anne Auraque

Kernel

I get an enormous feeling of self satisfaction, I can't stop smiling. I look in the mirror afterwards and think 'God I'm sexy'.

LOL.

Reply 14

Tuna

Another girl response

I feel relaxed and happy and I always smile. Then just like going to sleep with my boyfriend hugging me :smile:

Reply 15

Anonymous #5

I want a ham sandwich.

Reply 16

technik

cant say i feel any different myself. more of the fun is during the act rather than the finish. job done really sums it up

Reply 17

Anonymous #6

I usually think "F*** WHAT have I done?!". Before I can do anything I fall asleep and it's allllll good in the morning :smile:

Reply 18

Gio

i feel sleepy, hungry and lighter (does that little stuffs count too)?

Reply 19

Vampyrcorn

Anonymous

I'm gay and find that after I orgasm I feel totally digusted and depressed about what i just did / thought about. It's horrible.

Hang on a sec, so does this make you both homosexual and homophobic?

How very odd... and rather inconvenient too.

You might like to try and change that. (The homophobic part I mean, not the homosexual part).