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21 with 14 guy friends and no "girl" friends!

This is not a poser or showing off thread!

I am 21, 22 in august. I realise my life is kinda messed up

I have 14 guy friends, who i have all their numbers, another 3 guy friends from hockey, and a guy friend who's a manager from work. Thats 14 guy friends + 4 other guys i have numbers for

I only have a number of one girl. I only have her number 'cause she asked for it, and she was in my group at uni this semester. I don't like her very much, proberly won't see her again after exams.

I only asked one girl in my life for her number, and she gave me a 12 digit number! :smile:

Bascially, i am not shy and am very outgoing

Am i a bit messed up? Sorry for the long post, its bothering me tonight

:cool:

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Face it: You're sly.
Reply 2
maybe ypu give off an impression that girls dont like or are intimidated by.
Reply 3
GengisKahn
Face it: You're sly.


na! its all about technique and confidence! :p:
Reply 4
BouncyB
maybe ypu give off an impression that girls dont like or are intimidated by.


thats the exact opposite.....girls always laugh at me, and they say that i am funny and sweet

not sure if thats a good thing! :redface:
Reply 5
p.s, r u a guy or girl?
Reply 6
BouncyB
p.s, r u a guy or girl?


guy! i wish i was a girl tho! :p:
Reply 7
he he, ok then! funny and sweet vs hot and sexy! u decide, lol.
Reply 8
BouncyB
he he, ok then! funny and sweet vs hot and sexy! u decide, lol.


how do you know, that i am not all four? :wink:

i think girls are scared of me! :biggrin:

its cool tho!
Reply 9
i wish i was a girl tho!
mmm... why?

do you have the opportunity to make ''girl'' friends? do you go to the pub, gym, clubbing?? if not, maybe this is where you are going 'wrong'- also depends on what kind of course your are on at uni, if its more guys than girls then chances are, you will have more guy mates.
why don't you make friends with your guy mates' ''girl'' friends to begin with?
Reply 10
lol, scary guys are cool also. There is no way you can be all four!
Reply 11
Leafy Leaf
mmm... why?

do you have the opportunity to make ''girl'' friends? do you go to the pub, gym, clubbing?? if not, maybe this is where you are going 'wrong'- also depends on what kind of course your are on at uni, if its more guys than girls then chances are, you will have more guy mates.
why don't you make friends with your guy mates' ''girl'' friends to begin with?


you have very good points

why? i don't know

only been to a club twice in my life, hated it, don't go pub, as don't drink, don't go gym, too lazy, i play hockey instead!

doing computing with statistics, nearly all guys!

i don't like mixing with people i don't know.....mixing with guy mates "girl" friend is kinda desperate!
Reply 12
BouncyB
lol, scary guys are cool also. There is no way you can be all four!


i am far from scary! i think your the scary one!

yeah, i am not all four, just sweet, funny, sporty and witty! thats the four!

only 5'8, skinny, with a young face! ah well....life can't be perfect!
Reply 13
"don't like mixing with people i don't know", sums it all up really.
Reply 14
Try something new and you'll meet new people. Join the newspaper or do an intramural sport or something.
Reply 15
dede
Try something new and you'll meet new people. Join the newspaper or do an intramural sport or something.


yeah, i am doing both tomorrow! :wink:
Reply 16
Newspaper and a new sport? Wow, impressive for someone who doesn't like meeting new people. Good on you.
Is the fact that you 'have' these guy's numbers significant? I would've thought the point is more of whether you actually use the numbers of all these guys?

Quite funny this really (not in a haha funny way) but I was thinking something simular about me the other day... also seen as we're the same age, except most of my friends are girls, only one or two guy friends. Odd. :redface:

We could always swap some!:biggrin:
Reply 18
pol_student
Is the fact that you 'have' these guy's numbers significant? I would've thought the point is more of whether you actually use the numbers of all these guys?

Quite funny this really (not in a haha funny way) but I was thinking something simular about me the other day... also seen as we're the same age, except most of my friends are girls, only one or two guy friends. Odd. :redface:

We could always swap some!:biggrin:


hehe, never ring them! don't have time

whats your ratio? we can swap, like i swap one guy for you ten girls? :biggrin:
Reply 19
du you want 'girl' friends? U dont need them really.