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is she messing around?
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basically ive met this girl who lives in the next corridor at uni, and we went out the other night. All the flatmates set us up, it kinda went well. Last week i was like going to her and talking to her and they were good-ish talks. Then 2 nites ago she went up to me and we were playing games and stuffs, with good talking and having fun. Then her friend (a girl) came down and suddenly she turned really cold to me
last nite she just came to me with her fd again to borrow a dvd, without saying thank you or anything, just borrowed it and went away
question is - is she playing around with me? it was the biggest turn off i had from these 2 events. if it had gone well earlier, surely she would've gone with the flow, but now she is against the grain
last nite she just came to me with her fd again to borrow a dvd, without saying thank you or anything, just borrowed it and went away
question is - is she playing around with me? it was the biggest turn off i had from these 2 events. if it had gone well earlier, surely she would've gone with the flow, but now she is against the grain
Reply 1
Maybe just ask her is the best solution, as we can't read her mind?
Maybe she doesn't want to be all friendly in front her friends at this early stage of the realtionship and also she may not want them to know what is going on (cos if they set you up, odds on they'll be gagging to know what's going on!), which may explain why she turns cold around other people.
However, I would think that there would have been plently of other people around who she could choose to borrow a DVD from, and she choose to come to you? I would think that that's a good sign... don't you?
Maybe she doesn't want to be all friendly in front her friends at this early stage of the realtionship and also she may not want them to know what is going on (cos if they set you up, odds on they'll be gagging to know what's going on!), which may explain why she turns cold around other people.
However, I would think that there would have been plently of other people around who she could choose to borrow a DVD from, and she choose to come to you? I would think that that's a good sign... don't you?
Reply 2
Gio
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argh, i don't know, its always me who go to her rather than she coming to me apart from borrowing stuffs. btw im not going out with her but im about to ask her out tho
Reply 3
Gio
basically ive met this girl who lives in the next corridor at uni, and we went out the other night. All the flatmates set us up, it kinda went well. Last week i was like going to her and talking to her and they were good-ish talks. Then 2 nites ago she went up to me and we were playing games and stuffs, with good talking and having fun. Then her friend (a girl) came down and suddenly she turned really cold to me
last nite she just came to me with her fd again to borrow a dvd, without saying thank you or anything, just borrowed it and went away
question is - is she playing around with me? it was the biggest turn off i had from these 2 events. if it had gone well earlier, surely she would've gone with the flow, but now she is against the grain
last nite she just came to me with her fd again to borrow a dvd, without saying thank you or anything, just borrowed it and went away
question is - is she playing around with me? it was the biggest turn off i had from these 2 events. if it had gone well earlier, surely she would've gone with the flow, but now she is against the grain
Shes either just not the sort to be outgoing with a guy infront of her friends or shes got another guy on the go which this friend knows about
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